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joined Jan 14, 2020

What I've wondered about is the tradeoff between familyname-chan and personalname-san

Charon-sml
joined Feb 14, 2016

JumboWheat01 posted:

Says she wants to cuddle, yet steals all the blankets. The absolute fiend.

That's the secret. You steal all the blankets so if she wants to get warm she has to go through you. It's called cornering the market, sweaty

91b
joined Aug 12, 2019

Local woman found dead from embarrassment.

Reports say her girlfriend was on the phone with her uncle when he overheard the woman saying she wanted to cuddle more. Her girlfriend reported her passing shortly thereafter.

oh, Aya-san. we knew you so well.

Nobody
joined Aug 17, 2019

That would be a way to end the series

joined Feb 25, 2025

Translator note: Aya now calls Mitsuki with her first name instead of "Koga-san". And Mitsuki makes a show of calling her "Oosawa-san" when speaking with Joe, but then, at the end, calls her "Aya-san".

The fact Mitsuki still uses a polite "-san" speaks volumes about who's on top.

For me this means that Mitsuki is on top but maybe I am misinterpreting your tone and you mean that Aya is on top?

It means that Mitsuki is more "respectful" toward Aya than Aya is toward Mitsuki.

Which implicitely means that Aya is "higher" in the hierarchy and "on top". Though I thought it was obvious all along the manga...

How you call someone carries very subtle implications in Japanese culture, because it's very hierarchical. Foreigners often trip on that and can inadvertently belittle someone without realizing it.

I am sorry I thought you were making a word play implying that Mitsuki was topping Aya, and Mitsuki still using -san was similar to the cookiness when a Kouhai tops her Senpai and is still very polite. Thanks for explaining! though I already know about that stuff, I thought what you said had a double meaning, I have my mind in the gutter lol

Palucina1
joined May 26, 2020

I was going to say Joe probably wouldn't tease them about this, but he would definitely tell Kanna and it would be dereliction of duty for her NOT to tease them about this!

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joined Mar 10, 2020

This was a nice chapter, also nice to see them sharing a bed.

D5
joined Apr 10, 2024

lol, still easily embarassed.

Calm down, Joe knows what's up. :D

Ha ha. My version is that Joe was like "Aya said the funniest thing during the call... I wonder what that was all about" and Kanna gave him A Look and said "Joe." and continued staring at him until the penny dropped and he clued in.

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joined Jul 10, 2016

Good for Joe; you can tell he's acclimatized well to life in the States, because he's holding his phone like all the dipshits here do.

Icon_tinyrain
joined Jan 30, 2017

Thanks for explaining! though I already know about that stuff, I thought what you said had a double meaning, I have my mind in the gutter lol

Oh Aya definitely tops in the other sense too.

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joined Nov 13, 2022

Good for Joe; you can tell he's acclimatized well to life in the States, because he's holding his phone like all the dipshits here do.

Ah yes, Standard American Dipshit Phone Holding, or SADPH. All Americans learn this in school.

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joined Mar 6, 2021

Good for Joe; you can tell he's acclimatized well to life in the States, because he's holding his phone like all the dipshits here do.

What are you talking about? That's a normal way to hold it if you have speakerphone on.

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