I am sorry eyeless man but you must die. Well, not really sorry.

I am sorry eyeless man but you must die. Well, not really sorry.

yes

So, what are the odds that Natsuko is already nearby and Captain Eyeless is about 10 seconds away from becoming Captain Toothless?

Oh yes grab the wrist of the person you just met. Totally going to go over well and doesn't make you look like an asshole at all.

I get that that Natsuto is trying to be the trusting girlfriend. But it is a heckin mixer not a social club.

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Girlfriend is definitely nearby in case of slime and not getting a text back. Or bestie will help

Well, that guy is trouble... And soon in trouble.

So, what are the odds that Natsuko is already nearby and Captain Eyeless is about 10 seconds away from becoming Captain Toothless?

Oh, definitely.

What a stupid chapter.

Oh no! Not eyeless NTR man! He goes to the same plot device school as truck-kun!

“Basically, with mixers, you take people by force, get taken by force, or kidnap someone, and you’re set.” — Umetarou Nozaki

I find this aspect of manga disturbing. Is Asian drinking culture like this? This forcing of drinks on the reluctant, and the inability to say no?

Boy both this and the new chapter of kasesan that just came out are really disappointing.

I get it, the guy is being forceful. Probably a drunk guy who's obviously a bit of a jackass after he has a few drinks and came to a mixer expecting things to happen since that's why you go to mixers. You expect things to happen. He gets overly excited over a cute girl, and nobody can blame that, and with the power of alcohol, he does a dumb thing by being perhaps a bit too assertive for a sober mind to handle. But with everyone being this stupid, I think the guy is the last person to get angry at. I'll go with everyone thinking that Rika getting to a mixer is a great idea. And then Rika herself for going along with it first because she wants to get her GF to get jelly or something and after that doesn't happen she goes with it because uh... She doesn't want to admit to it? I have no idea. It's one of those "Play stupid games, win stupid prizes" situations.
I know, it's a dumb setup for a princess being rescued by her knight in shiny armor. But these types of scenes frustrate me. The guy will be/is painted as some sort of bad guy, but this literally happened in the first chapter. And those people know about it. And yet they still allowed it to happen again.
I don't even care that this might spawn a dumb discussion or people might think I'm defending the guy. I'm not. If anything, I'm blaming those three airheads for making this situation happen in the first place. Ugh... Such an awful and frustrating chapter. And there'll be a follow-up, which is just... Great.

Alcohol is not excuse for this kind of behavior. If you get that unhinged when drinking, do not drink in public.

What is wrong with the friend (idk her name)? She seems like a nice enough and considerate person based on this chapter, but she's still going to mixers? How has she not found someone to date yet?

I find this aspect of manga disturbing. Is Asian drinking culture like this? This forcing of drinks on the reluctant, and the inability to say no?

Absolutely yes. In Japan you are expected to drink at social gatherings, especially if a superior is drinking and asking you to do it as well.

Bus-kun is idling right behind the corner.

I find this aspect of manga disturbing. Is Asian drinking culture like this? This forcing of drinks on the reluctant, and the inability to say no?

Absolutely yes. In Japan you are expected to drink at social gatherings, especially if a superior is drinking and asking you to do it as well.

A Western friend working in Japan said that was the worst of a number of unpleasant things about Japanese professional culture--being required to go drinking where everyone was getting hammered and being expected to do so oneself.

I find this aspect of manga disturbing. Is Asian drinking culture like this? This forcing of drinks on the reluctant, and the inability to say no?

Absolutely yes. In Japan you are expected to drink at social gatherings, especially if a superior is drinking and asking you to do it as well.

A Western friend working in Japan said that was the worst of a number of unpleasant things about Japanese professional culture--being required to go drinking where everyone was getting hammered and being expected to do so oneself.

My favourite scene in the movie Tampopo:
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RRVLqUpHDJE

Is Asian (...) culture like this? (...) the inability to say no?

Basically, yes. In both Japanese and Chinese culture, there is a STRONG cultural bias towards shaming the one who says "no" as "arrogant" or "rude".
t. got a Chinese not-blood-related sister

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Is Asian (...) culture like this? (...) the inability to say no?

Basically, yes. In both Japanese and Chinese culture, there is a STRONG cultural bias towards shaming the one who says "no" as "arrogant" or "rude".
t. got a Chinese not-blood-related sister

On the face of it, only. Like, if an older Japanese guy responded to a request by sucking in air through his teeth, that's a definite no.

Beyond that, as you get to know the culture, "Noes" become more and more obvious. Also requests. You won't pick up on requests at first, either, even though they know they have to be more blunt with gai(koku)jin tachi.

By the way, a lot of the manga here have coded language. You may wish for people to "come out" openly, but a lot of the language the manga uses is basically that.

At first, I leveraged that a bit to get people to go along with requests they wanted to say no to, but after I;d been around long enough to not be a newbie, that wouldn't have worked.

This is why I admire the translators on Dynasty, they as a group have a good grasp of context.

What the hell is wrong with her friend's choices of mixer participants ? Is she recruiting them on some shady website or something ? She should really, really leave the planning to someone else.

Boy both this and the new chapter of kasesan that just came out are really disappointing.

Eh, this feels a lot more realistic to me than Kase's garbage. I mean, getting your committed lesbian friend to round out a mixer seems fairly dumb, but I can kind of see it for faking 'balance' (though then it's kind of also shitty, deliberately going for N guys and N-1 available girls). And then jerkass being jerkass is sadly realistic.

Next chapter : FALCON PAWNCH!

I am tired of the saving your girlfriend or love interest from the advances of a creepy guy trope in yuri. I guess it might be a reflection of authors' own experiences with shitty men? Still I don't see what it adds dramatically at this point