Toxic husband was toxic.
Those flashbacks of comments from years ago are so relatable and frustrating.
As much as I hate to say it, it just reminds me of my dad.
I've hated him for so long because of that, but now that I see that it's not just us but he's also been toxic to himself because of his attitude that may have been a result of his unfortunate and tough early life; I kinda feel pity for him.
It is what it is.
I hope he may experience some freedom and happiness too.
Agreed, this story hits way too close to home. At some point I just started hating men altogether due to my grandpa and uncle being a pair of absolute buttholes. It's been a slow process, but I realize now that they are victims of their own environment as much as we are.
So with my supposed dad, he got into an accident when he was really young and lost his Right arm from the elbow, plus his life was really hard having to take care of his many siblings and growing up with an alcoholic father, plus this is Romania while under communism so Rular life was REALLY hard, manage to move to the capital and met my mom.
Unfortunatly he is incapable of having emotions! it’s like he never got to develop them(I don’t think he ever show my mom he loved her), also he is doing what his father did, became alcoholic, and an disgusting personality that gaslights my mom all the time, the moment he got physical my mom divorce him, better now that never :/
I wanna pity him but I kinda can’t, tho I don’t hate him, more like, way bother? when being trans in romania is an fight on itself.