If you think being gay is equal to being a burden, what are you even doing on this site ? Seriously, fuck off. Calling gay children a burden is literal homophobia and should not be accepted in a safe space such as here.

Even today there aren't many places where you can grow up gay and not make it harder for yourself and your family. People told me I'm a satanist for liking girls and that I'm a burden to society for not wanting kids and get married. That was in germany which is not super religious. Imagine living in a more conservative country. You can't always just cut off your community and go move somewhere else.

I really don't appreciate this ( mostly american it seems) twitter culture of attacking anything and anyone. People aren't your enemy just because they say something you don't want to hear. How can this create a "safe space"? Not being allowed to say anything that could be seen as uncomfortable creates toxic positivity. This is not punching nazis, this is hurting our own side.

Anyway, maybe now the Doer of Nothing will become a Doer of Something in her next training arc.

I don't know what Germany is like, but the US nowadays doesn't really value family bonds or being a parent. Children are expected to move out at 18, lest they become a burden on their parents, the extended family is not expected to help with child raising, parents are expected to pay for their own retirement and may be shunted into an abusive nursing home if they don't, children are expected to place their life goals over the parents (in terms of career choice etc), an impoverished person having children is seen as irresponsible rather than someone worthy of support, and similar. I'm speaking in generalities, but this is the overall tendency.

I believe this leads to some cultural differences in terms of how fictional works are interpreted, even if LGBT authors in both countries are broadly interested in the LGBT characters becoming self actualized and having successful relationships. A lesbian entering an arranged marriage with a man due to wanting to please their traditionalist parents would not really even be conceivable in a US work, for instance, whereas it's something that could happen in an east Asian work depending on the character's specific background. Even if the character doesn't go to these extremes, the character trying harder to please the parents in other ways becomes likely.

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Oh shite. Mother in law makes a comeback after her critical injury. Daughter in law is gonna feel that one in the morning...at 11.00

TongTong is a Doer of Luxi.
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Being a dom is really half of the necessary chores anyway

Nice try. Chores are inevitable lest she faces her mother-in-law's (for once justifiable) wrath

TongTong has really been on the It's so over/We're so back rollercoaster this whole arc and I've been loving it!

i dunno luxi i don't know if she would've had that problem if you hadn't put the image into her head specifically

If my mom got me fetish gear I would die

I could totally see my mom doing that too... Chinese parents are scary...

Mom teasing her crush? Maybe they'll "hate" their way to a relationship. Our main couple is wholesome as always. Fun chapter.

I really love how they snuggle from that back hugg.....

"Let's not do any R rated stuff with my mom's gift" 10 seconds later... sexy times.

The 4D-chess-way for a mother to turn her daughter off the pet play fetish path.

Reminds me of JoJo. The dog gear awakened Luxi's mom stand

I mean she really was fucking cute with the dog ears and tail good Lord.

I AM MELTING. ITS TOO SWEEEET

Woof, like mothers like daughters. The ways they take after them is really funny. Also big strategic move by Lu to invoke her mother's ghost against Tongtong. It's interesting that Tongtong has adopted Lu's kink so wholeheartedly that you wouldn't imagine she didn't develop it on her own. I hope they find out it was Tongtongs mom who suggested it and that it's inderectly Tongtong's fault that puppy ears are now forever tainted

Awww nice to see the moms getting along again ^v^ i thought that Lu and Tongtong would be more shocked by the furry stuff, but the way they seem to think that the mom already knows about Lu's whole deal makes me think that it's gonna come back. also have more self esteem Tongtong!!!

God I lost it for a solid five minutes after the " ̶o̶n̶l̶y̶ ̶s̶e̶c̶o̶n̶d̶ ̶t̶o̶ ̶l̶e̶s̶b̶i̶a̶n̶s̶ ̶i̶n̶ ̶c̶a̶r̶i̶n̶g̶ ̶a̶b̶o̶u̶t̶ ̶e̶d̶u̶c̶a̶t̶i̶o̶n̶a̶l̶ ̶a̶t̶t̶a̶i̶n̶m̶e̶n̶t̶". Lu's mom is truly great.

yayyyy i love gay bdsm art thank you xian jun

so happy that Tongtong's mom instantly came back about the slut shaming as soon as Luxi's mom had recovered

i just really enjoy how tightly written this is

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Ive realized a lot of things about myself after reading this far into this story... and I dont know how to feel abt that .u.
These two are my faves tho ^_^ <3

I really don't appreciate this ( mostly american it seems) twitter culture of attacking anything and anyone. People aren't your enemy just because they say something you don't want to hear. How can this create a "safe space"? Not being allowed to say anything that could be seen as uncomfortable creates toxic positivity. This is not punching nazis, this is hurting our own side.

Anyway, maybe now the Doer of Nothing will become a Doer of Something in her next training arc.

I completely agree with this, it baffles me how Americans think that they will bring people to like queerness or to be comfortable around queer people when they insult and kick out anyone who says something they remotely don't like, you only give fuel to bigots to talk shit about it, trying to talk to people without being patronizing or insulting seems impossible for the American folk.

I'm amazed this work has gotten as far as it has under the CCP which jails LGBT authors on the regular, it might actually have something to do with the Lin's mother not being vilified and tossed to the curb like many western stories would depict. Social Harmony and all that.

Huh, the majority of the world doesn't live in a society where you can be openly LGBTQ without extreme consequences.

HUH?????? I’m so confused why on earth would her mom know about her fetish and WHY ON EARTH would she have all people get her a gift like this!? Not thing about this makes sense to me given her character

HUH?????? I’m so confused why on earth would her mom know about her fetish and WHY ON EARTH would she have all people get her a gift like this!? Not thing about this makes sense to me given her character

We saw where and who this gift came from in a previous chapter. She didn't know what she bought. Tongtong's mom told her to get it for a "cosplay," gift. So it's really from Tongtong's mom and even she didn't know what it was about.

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HUH?????? I’m so confused why on earth would her mom know about her fetish and WHY ON EARTH would she have all people get her a gift like this!? Not thing about this makes sense to me given her character

Tong Tong's mom saw the collar on their video call, and then recommended Lin Luxi's mom buy the present. Tong Tong's mom seems to think it's just cosplay.