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Yuibless
joined Jan 30, 2017

Natsume totally bumped into her on purpose. They should just break up.

I've seen her called Natsume a few times here and on Mangadex. Is there a joke I'm missing?

If you're reading a lot of different manga in parallel it can be easy to mix up names, I think. And when one person in the thread is confidently wrong, other people will start copying them assuming that person remembered correctly lol

Orz, sorry.

therealearthwormjim
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joined Sep 11, 2024

Loved that we got to see more of Yuni's and Fuuko's backstory, their family life and thoughts.
Fuuko's "mama" complex makes sense never getting the motherly loved she needed after her grandmother died. Yuni's problems with cheating make sense coming from a broken home which gives many people experiencing it trauma in some form or another.

Good stuff, not everything needs to be happy go lucky feelgood, can't wait to see where this goes. Writing and Art is 10/10

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joined Aug 10, 2015

i don´t know why people are so mad, im loving every single page of this hot mess, the fact that yuni wants nanase to leave not fuuko, also the scene where fuuko refuses to take her earring off is just so peak, really encapsulates the microcosmos of the manga, fuuko being the most assertive and alpha character while nanase the type of character that will leave girlfriend alone with the girl she just got cheate

E. Vigée Le Brun
joined Jun 8, 2021

i don´t know why people are so mad, im loving every single page of this hot mess, the fact that yuni wants nanase to leave not fuuko, also the scene where fuuko refuses to take her earring off is just so peak, really encapsulates the microcosmos of the manga, fuuko being the most assertive and alpha character while nanase the type of character that will leave girlfriend alone with the girl she just got cheated with

Loving this manga too. It's crazy good.

Fuuko is GOD.

Yuni is super lucky and doesn't deserve it. >:(

thechampionmike95
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joined Aug 6, 2015

Nanase is tye a coward. She seems like the type the doesn't like fighting for things. She is probably only dating Yuni because she was asked out more than actually loving her. Everytime something serious about their relationship comes up she either leaves or pushes Yuni away. This was her chance to prove she's a good gf, and still she decided to just walk away from the infirmary.

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joined Jan 19, 2020

Everyone keeps making each other worse let's go

TifalovesAerith
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joined May 7, 2017

We probably have as much a chance at poly as we do any of the characters ending up with a guy...which is basically zero.

I'd argue this author, which is well-know for polys and whatnots (look at her past stories) and is actually building to at least an triangle, and hold me to it, Fuuko is gonna tease Nanase saying she actually made her girlfriend climax and propose who makes her Yuni climax harder that will eventually lead into our long-desired three-way, you heard it here first, folks!

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joined Mar 21, 2021

Btw, no chapter this month in Yurihime.

Nq9nh0qj
joined Oct 25, 2023

Btw, no chapter this month in Yurihime.

My disappointment is immeasurable and my day is ruined.

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joined Apr 10, 2023

I trust the author will enjoy their break and come back with even more wonderfully deranged drama for us :)

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joined Apr 25, 2020

Wow, nanase really is the only sane person here

Nq9nh0qj
joined Oct 25, 2023

Wow, nanase really is the only sane person here

Well...maybe until the most recent chapter. Bit of an issue with anger.

joined Jul 20, 2024

This manga reminds me so much of "with that forbidden girl in that forbidden place" and both of them are among my top favorite Yuri mangas. Guess Im a sucker for the troubled girl finding "true" love.

Anyway, it's sad to see cheating happening but the unfortunate reality is that Nanase is too conscious and healthy minded for the relationship Yuni needs, and I think subconsciously Nanase recognizes that as well, that is why she's hesitant in making her intentions clear.

Finding a lover like Yuni is one in a million as they are more intense and lovable that most people, but that same intensity can and will suffocate those who are not prepared people. Their love is like an endless wave of hearts and kisses. They will follow you to the ends of the earth and defend you with zero hesitation. There is no one else who will dedicate their to you as much. The hell though starts the moment they even think you are cheating or have after thoughts. Yuni already questions Nanase's loyalty, she's just sticking around because she's put Nanase on a pedestal and wrapped her in gold. It's only now that Yuni is wondering whether or not Nana's deserves that gold.

And while Nanase is possible the only redeemable person, she isn't making it clear to Yuni that she prioritizes her as a girlfriend. There is a lot of hesitation in her actions. She also doesn't have a clear view of what Yuni really wants in a lover due to little to no communication (again this is because she has a life outside of just thinking about Yuni). This is only hurting Yuni more and causing Yuni to think dramatically in a negative way

This isn't to say Nanase is a bad person. She will be a wonderful girlfriend for someone who doesnt live in fear of abandonment like Yuni does.

All my personal opinion though.

last edited at Oct 18, 2024 11:31PM

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joined Apr 25, 2020

Wow, nanase really is the only sane person here

Well...maybe until the most recent chapter. Bit of an issue with anger.

I think you're mistaking nanase for yuni

Nq9nh0qj
joined Oct 25, 2023

Wow, nanase really is the only sane person here

Well...maybe until the most recent chapter. Bit of an issue with anger.

I think you're mistaking nanase for yuni

No...I don't think I am.

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joined Aug 16, 2014

Poor Yuki's getting slammed around by everyone

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joined Apr 25, 2020

Wow, nanase really is the only sane person here

Well...maybe until the most recent chapter. Bit of an issue with anger.

I think you're mistaking nanase for yuni

No...I don't think I am.

How the hell do you even recall this lol

Edit: what chapter even is this, I'm reading the first uploading that's only gotten to chapter 14 so if that's from further apart, then I haven't seen it

last edited at Oct 19, 2024 2:48AM

Yuu
joined Mar 28, 2015

17hunter00 posted:

Edit: what chapter even is this, I'm reading the first uploading that's only gotten to chapter 14 so if that's from further apart, then I haven't seen it

It's in the latest chapter 27. The scanlator is redoing properly the chapters that were MTL'd on mangadex and fills them in here.

There's only chapter 15 missing here as of now.

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joined Jan 3, 2022

Poor Yuki's getting slammed around by everyone

Yuki actually is the only sane person in this manga. I’m cheering for Yuki now, the other three girls don’t matter, as long as Yuki is happy, I’m happy

Nq9nh0qj
joined Oct 25, 2023

Poor Yuki's getting slammed around by everyone

Yuki actually is the only sane person in this manga. I’m cheering for Yuki now, the other three girls don’t matter, as long as Yuki is happy, I’m happy

I predict Yuki will eventually get her oh-so-desired future full of domestic abuse bliss with Nanase.

Sdm%20ladies%20cheering
joined Apr 10, 2023

Honestly looking back at chapter 14 Yuni is basically in the right here? Yuki accuses her of not taking Nanase seriously and tries to force her to break up, but isn't it Nanase who is unserious about their relationship, especially before she knows about Fuuko and gets competitive. Forcing Yuni to act like strangers in public when Yuni doesn't want to so that Nanase can deny their relationship, only for her to just tell somebody without asking Yuni or even telling her about it? She had to learn about it from some nosy bitch with obvious ulterior motives getting up in her business instead? I know people consider Yuni and Fuuko to be the more serious violation due to the sex involved but what Nanase did is still a huge betrayal of trust and particularly feels nasty that she's the one who insisted on the rule of secrecy that she went and broke behind Yuni's back. Yuni being furious is definitely not her being "less sane" it's a completely understandable rational response.
Nanase's behavior implicitly frames herself as the boss of their relationship, the person in charge who gets to make the decisions and judges what's okay and what isn't, while Yuni's expected to just sit there and listen to her. As far as I'm concerned for anyone who acts like that in a relationship, if they get cheated on they had it coming.

last edited at Oct 19, 2024 12:48PM

Karma
joined Oct 21, 2017

Honestly looking back at chapter 14 Yuni is basically in the right here? Yuki accuses her of not taking Nanase seriously and tries to force her to break up, but isn't it Nanase who is unserious about their relationship, especially before she knows about Fuuko and gets competitive. Forcing Yuni to act like strangers in public when Yuni doesn't want to so that Nanase can deny their relationship, only for her to just tell somebody without asking Yuni or even telling her about it? She had to learn about it from some nosy bitch with obvious ulterior motives getting up in her business instead? I know people consider Yuni and Fuuko to be the more serious violation due to the sex involved but what Nanase did is still a huge betrayal of trust and particularly feels nasty that she's the one who insisted on the rule of secrecy that she went and broke behind Yuni's back. Yuni being furious is definitely not her being "less sane" it's a completely understandable rational response.
Nanase's behavior implicitly frames herself as the boss of their relationship, the person in charge who gets to make the decisions and judges what's okay and what isn't, while Yuni's expected to just sit there and listen to her. As far as I'm concerned for anyone who acts like that in a relationship, if they get cheated on they had it coming.

Well spoken I couldn't agree more.

Yuu
joined Mar 28, 2015

Yeah, looking back at chapter 14, everything stemmed from the fact Nanase was adamant their relationship shouldn't be made public. So, when Fuuko discovered who the girlfriend was, Yuni found herself wanting to fulfill that wish at all costs, even going as far as cheating so that Nanase wouldn't be outed.

Afterwards, things get messier, but at this point in the story, Yuni's action still have a reasonable explanation (not justification) and it's Nanase that rendered all her actions meaningless.

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joined May 11, 2013

And while Nanase is possible the only redeemable person, she isn't making it clear to Yuni that she prioritizes her as a girlfriend. There is a lot of hesitation in her actions. She also doesn't have a clear view of what Yuni really wants in a lover due to little to no communication (again this is because she has a life outside of just thinking about Yuni). This is only hurting Yuni more and causing Yuni to think dramatically in a negative way

This isn't to say Nanase is a bad person. She will be a wonderful girlfriend for someone who doesnt live in fear of abandonment like Yuni does.

All my personal opinion though.

Yeah, while Nanase has done the least "wrong" so far in the story compared to Fuuko and Yuni, she was never a very good girlfriend to Yuni, or for Yuni, really. Volleyball is still her #1, and Yuni is her #2, or #3 even, which is what was causing all of their relationship problems to begin with. Like, even when Fuuko was actively cucking her right in front of her face she still wasn't even willing to say Yuni was more important than her club. Nanase quite literally just doesn't have enough room in her life to give Yuni the amount of attention she needs.

Although now I think we're starting to see her more toxic traits come out. I feel like she sees her relationship with Yuni as something that she has to 'win' or 'succeed' at. And she is shaping up to be a very sore loser who doesn't know when it's time to let go.

Eri
joined Aug 30, 2020

I wouldn't say that Nanase has done the least wrong. I think she does have a bit of a mean streak, especially after their relationship becomes more open following Yuni's initial denial of Fuuko. You see it first when she bruises Yuni's wrist pulling her out of the rain, there's little you can do to convince me after the latest chapter that the she didn't do that on purpose. To what end though, I wonder? It's not entirely misguided, given that Yuni cheated on her. We see it boiling over now but she's seething inside. Yet she didn't take the opportunity to take it out on Fuuko despite Fuuko's insistence.

Is it because striking Fuuko would make her look bad? Taking out her frustrations so directly in front of the girl who claims to love her? So instead of taking it out openly on the seducer, she stages these accidental injuries, both so far conveniently when Yuni's mind is on Fuuko and she's paying less attention.

And Fuuko caught on after the track stunt, but it will hardly be the end of it, will it? If Yuni's eyes aren't on Nanase, she'll be sure to pay for it it seems.

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