I think its pretty obvious that the focus of this series is the times she does act like a cat which is what, a couple of hours a day (except special occasions like when she is in heat)? What she does during the remainder of her day hasnt been shown except a few panels here and there.
How can a work containing two same-aged characters even be considered lolicon? Like, no offense they are the same age! At least from what they look like.