like sure, toxic actions happen in irl relationships without always proceeding to abuse. but we also need to take them seriously as a society? and they still very frequently doom the relationships? there's a reason even "just a slap" is an infrequent source of drama for the true endgame relationship in josei anymore. if taken seriously it is incredibly hard to come back from. compare run away with me, girl.
(facepalm) Slapping someone because they kissed you without asking isn't abuse or a toxic action. It's self defense.
Don't get me wrong, the kiss in this case is a fairly benign infraction as well, but Kurumi was still the one in the wrong for kissing somebody without asking first.
And yeah, sure, let's compare with "Run Away With Me, Girl":
In that series, Tazune had already established a clear pattern of emotional abuse. He considered her his property, he only went out with her in the first place for selfish reasons, he negged her constantly, and what's more, the background established that he is explicitly a misogynist who viewed women as inferior. Oh, and his reason for hitting her was because he was annoyed that she politely asked him to be involved in their wedding.
Compared to here, where Ruriko slapped Kurumi because she panicked over being kissed without permission.
Not to mention he didn't just give her a slap on the cheek. He clocked her with his bag, just straight up decked her. Her nose was bleeding.
https://dynasty-scans.com/chapters/run_away_with_me_girl_ch06#31
The fact that you compared that to this is nuts to me.
(Edit: Man that series was good, though.)
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