i'm reading the web novel this is based on and... well lol. i sure hope the manhwa takes a very different direction, because the behaviour of qu xizhi is pretty damn hard to accept.
lmao I saw the prologue a few days ago and I immediately went and read through the novel last night... and well, it was... something lol.
ngl, but the last chapter made me angry lol. the extras were pretty nice but honestly there was a part of me that regretted reading this story. it's so unfortunate because this story starts out so well and it all goes to hell when we get to 薄一清 (baoyiqing)'s part, in my personal opinion. I honestly hope the author and the artist deviate from the original novel as well. It's also interesting bc the author has actually rewritten the ending before tho.
For anyone wondering (and if you really can't help spoil yourself haha), the behavior in question is borderline societally-not-acceptable possessiveness. In Chinese, it's 占有性.
Despite the initial regret, I think this story really made me reconsider relationships in a new light, so it was well worth the read.
It's like:
societally acceptable behavior
the gray area
abuse
and this novel pretty much floats around in the gray area and skirts the edge
the following pretty much explains my takeaway from this novel:
but at the same time, this novel taught me to try not to judge other people's relationships. human relationships are complex. this novel showcases a character that is borderline socially unacceptably possessive but they acknowledge their thought patterns are not very healthy
ultimately their partner accepts this part of them
outside of the relationship, I think ppl would be quick to call it a red flag and toxic etc but it seemed that inside the relationship, there was a complex give/take that both partners were ultimately okay with and eventually happy about
sorry for the messy post, but I had a lot to say about this novel haha.