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Ykn1
joined Dec 20, 2018

On one hand, progress, on the other hand, pain...

joined Mar 14, 2021

Wow... Pain...

Yuriprofilepiccropped
joined May 27, 2019

Mei x Rinna best ship :D
i hope they don't end in a poly

A poly ending would still have Mei x Rinna? Like, I guess I'm biased since I am poly, but I really don't understand this sentiment. It being poly doesn't diminish the feelings in between those two, it just means they have room for more

last edited at May 24, 2021 1:36PM

Angryface
joined Mar 22, 2021

I love that Mei was classed as "Professional feeble". Also come on Sayo get a backbone and go for it!

joined Sep 11, 2019

Me: Haha I'm worthless lmao
Sayo: "I'm worthless"
Me: NO DON'T YOU DARE SAY THAT GIRL YOU'RE NOT WORTHLESS

The immaculate
joined Mar 19, 2020

Mei x Rinna best ship :D
i hope they don't end in a poly

A poly ending would still have Mei x Rinna? Like, I guess I'm biased since I am poly, but I really don't understand this sentiment. It being poly doesn't diminish the feelings in between those two, it just means they have room for more

Maybe they’re just not that into sayo. I like both of the characters equally so I want them both to be happy. But if I preferred one I’d probably want it not to be poly

saltyslug5561
Yvo0lylulbwzixjblrxj
joined May 12, 2020

Mei is right to be afraid of love. You can hurt people even while trying to do the opposite. She was trying to close the distance between her and Rinna with a first name only approach but it only showed Rinna that their feelings towards each other is very different. Rinna is in love and she is naturally very apprehensive about their relationship.

Mei isnt in love like she is and thus very non-chalant about such an arguably important step.

Human communication is hell.

Takasaki Reika
Untitled315
joined Mar 30, 2021

OH GOD,I DON'T CARE IF WE'RE GOING TO POLY ROUTE OR NOT,I JUST WANT ALL OF THEM TO BE HAPPY

last edited at May 24, 2021 5:38PM

1568990947_preview_2639
joined Feb 24, 2021

God, I really hope a poly happens between Sayo, Rinna and Mei. I mean come on, we had a chapter where Mei meets her teachers, then proceeds to ask them about being in a relationship with more than 1 person, then on top of that Rinna seems to be falling for Sayo while still having feelings for Mei.

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joined Oct 22, 2018

First:

OH GOD,I DON'T CARE IF WE'RE GOING TO POLY ROUTE OR NOT,I JUST WANT ALL OF THEM TO BE HAPPY

Mood

Second:

Lol at the credit page. Are we supposed to ship Goggled and Urbs now?

46-75
joined Jun 25, 2019

God, I really hope a poly happens between Sayo, Rinna and Mei. I mean come on, we had a chapter where Mei meets her teachers, then proceeds to ask them about being in a relationship with more than 1 person

Isn't that just normal asking when you see that kind of relationship though ? That doesn't she want the same relation, that just mean she is curious how the relation work.

then on top of that Rinna seems to be falling for Sayo while still having feelings for Mei.

Where ? As far as i'm concerned none of the friends seem to be interested in the others at all. Don't let the accident kiss fool you, Rinna's arrow is exclusively for Mei and nobody else. Her arrow for Sayo get popped in the same chapter she got it.

I said more than enough that to me Poly ending for solving a love triangle is like the cheapest way to do it, not to mention how unoriginal it will be if they just follow blindly the example of the teachers. Like what ? Next time she encounter a girl with a harem and it will be an harem ending ? I think it's better than they found their own love rather than just copy one of the love they witnessed.

Yuri Yuriyuri
Miowink
joined Aug 21, 2020

If you splash water on an anime person their immune system immediately shuts down.

(y)
joined Jan 9, 2017

Auch

0003_proc
joined Jul 21, 2019

I said more than enough that to me Poly ending for solving a love triangle is like the cheapest way to do it

I don't mind poly but in the case of this series I have to agree. To be honest I feel like Mei x Rinna has the better chemistry but as a character I like Saya best because I relate to her.

Goggled Anon
Stardusttelepath8
joined Oct 15, 2014

If you splash water on an anime person their immune system immediately shuts down.

To be fair, it's only Mei who this is a big concern for, since she probably could actually die from it.

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Beloved%2021
joined Oct 10, 2020

First:

OH GOD,I DON'T CARE IF WE'RE GOING TO POLY ROUTE OR NOT,I JUST WANT ALL OF THEM TO BE HAPPY

Mood

Second:

Lol at the credit page. Are we supposed to ship Goggled and Urbs now?

It’s unrequited, maybe one day Goggled will have an arrow of their own

Cool
joined Apr 4, 2021

So this is Sayo's arc huh. Sayo should love and accept herself first before loving someone else because its hard to love someone who's not real to themselves.

Vashu
joined Apr 2, 2017

Calling a poly ending lazy/cheap is pretty inconsiderate of how like that kind of relationship rarely gets depicted respectfully, (harem are just horny and don't really broach the subject). People only like love triangles because they've been used to reinforce monogamy, when they really point out that it doesn't have to be that way and brings misery otherwise. Someone doesn't have to lose and win.

Yuriprofilepiccropped
joined May 27, 2019

Calling a poly ending lazy/cheap is pretty inconsiderate of how like that kind of relationship rarely gets depicted respectfully, (harem are just horny and don't really broach the subject). People only like love triangles because they've been used to reinforce monogamy, when they really point out that it doesn't have to be that way and brings misery otherwise. Someone doesn't have to lose and win.

Agreed, it is very rare that poly gets depicted with any real consideration behind it. And honestly, there's no shortage of mono relationships if that's what people prefer.

To me, a lot of the calls for the endgame to not be poly are weird because it sounds like they want someone to "lose" and suffer the heartbreak unnecessarily. Like there have been so many love triangles that resolve with that angst, so it's exciting to for there to be chance for it to be averted

joined May 24, 2021

I'm usually not one for Polyamory but this manga is awesome and so cuute, love it!

0003_proc
joined Jul 21, 2019

Calling a poly ending lazy/cheap is pretty inconsiderate of how like that kind of relationship rarely gets depicted respectfully, (harem are just horny and don't really broach the subject). People only like love triangles because they've been used to reinforce monogamy, when they really point out that it doesn't have to be that way and brings misery otherwise. Someone doesn't have to lose and win.

Agreed, it is very rare that poly gets depicted with any real consideration behind it. And honestly, there's no shortage of mono relationships if that's what people prefer.

To me, a lot of the calls for the endgame to not be poly are weird because it sounds like they want someone to "lose" and suffer the heartbreak unnecessarily. Like there have been so many love triangles that resolve with that angst, so it's exciting to for there to be chance for it to be averted

Well someone has to lose because I personally enjoy the drama and the crushing feelings that come with it, it has nothing to do with a preference towards monogamy or polyamory in my case.
And even if this manga does end in poly so far it's not doing a decent job at portraying it in a respectful and considerate manner, let's be honest. Also as of now Sayo is not into Rinna and despite that accidental kiss and her internal turmoil she's still full Mei only, in contrast to Rinna who seems to have other little arrows here and there.

Descarga%20(3)
joined Aug 10, 2015

And even if this manga does end in poly so far it's not doing a decent job at portraying it in a respectful and considerate manner, let's be honest. Also as of now Sayo is not into Rinna and despite that accidental kiss and her internal turmoil she's still full Mei only, in contrast to Rinna who seems to have other little arrows here and there.

i mean the manga is still going so is still poissible to properly develop the rinna x sayo side, wich is pretty much the only side that´s lacking right now. Im really omptismitic for this one, i honestly think that as long as it doesn´t get axed, it´s gonna be really good, definetly better than "easy introduction to love triangles" for sure

46-75
joined Jun 25, 2019

Calling a poly ending lazy/cheap is pretty inconsiderate of how like that kind of relationship rarely gets depicted respectfully, (harem are just horny and don't really broach the subject). People only like love triangles because they've been used to reinforce monogamy, when they really point out that it doesn't have to be that way and brings misery otherwise. Someone doesn't have to lose and win.

Someone just skip a part of what i say, i said "poly ending in a love trainglae set-up" is lazy, if the poly ending or ploy itself is made without this set-up then i don't have a problem. The last sentence is mostly my problem for that. This ending for this set-up is like the author say "i don't feel like someone being sad so everyone win".
I mean Sayaka in Yagate had a good ending despite losing.

Yuriprofilepiccropped
joined May 27, 2019

Well someone has to lose because I personally enjoy the drama and the crushing feelings that come with it, it has nothing to do with a preference towards monogamy or polyamory in my case.
And even if this manga does end in poly so far it's not doing a decent job at portraying it in a respectful and considerate manner, let's be honest. Also as of now Sayo is not into Rinna and despite that accidental kiss and her internal turmoil she's still full Mei only, in contrast to Rinna who seems to have other little arrows here and there.

If suffering is just how you prefer it, that's valid.

And with how uncommon representation is right now, I'd rather have clumsy or imperfect attempts at representation than nothing at all.

Also, not to be a broken record, but a v-shaped relationship is still poly. It is very common in real life for members of a polycule to not date each other despite sharing partners.

Honestly, I'd love to see more work depict the poly experience of thinking your partner is super cute when they gush and panic over a new crush, or how cute their dynamic with another partner is, etc. Every relationship is unique and gets to be cherished and given its time. It's one of the best parts of being poly.

last edited at May 25, 2021 1:17AM

Capturedsfdsss_x213
joined Mar 16, 2018

Sayo should have been a boxer

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