Well, that escalated quickly.
Don't much care for this trope either. I get yuri is all about the ladies, but I hate it when manga make guys look like total assholes for no reason other than what seems to be sour feminist grapes. Yes, there are some really shitty dudes out there, just like there's some really messed up women. However, the majority of us guys are decent human beings who don't act like this, and would never treat other people that way, regardless of gender.
I'm just going to say something cause this topic is dealing with reality and want to address it.
Yes, almost a majority of men aren't that extremely evil, but I feel that it isn't only people who act that way are the only bad guys. I was an oblivious misogynistic when I was young, thinking that certain roles should only be done by women and men are more privileged. But I grew up and matured out of that mindset, I never intended any parts of my views to be disrespectful towards women but I never thought that my views were entirely disrespectful and because of that I wasn't able to see the whole picture for what it was.
Even though at present I'm more attentive to social inequality, I can't help but feel helpless when certain incidents occur across the world, and what is even more horrifying is that people who are supposed to be good and decent human being aren't aware of the lack of social effort they put into these issues. I'm not blaming normal civilians who genuinely believe they are trying to do good, but there is a very large grey area that most of us unknowingly walk in, that makes us fall short of actually helping out people in need or making a difference.
Sometimes in order to create a clear 'socially just' society for all people, we might need to adopt an extreme narrative that the bad things happening in the real world, may have been contributed by our own obliviousness or inability to distinctively reach out and help. We may not be a part of the crimes that are committed but our inability to help isn't by any means beneficial to anyone.