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butches-and-chicken
Cachorra
joined Jun 12, 2023

I liked this chapter far more than it deserves (I think), if only for how the professor was shown to be human (not some know-it-all prick) and the son-in-law managed to put his foot in his mouth all the way to the knee with his wife.

Actually the man is her son, not son-in-law, which makes his reactions even more frustrating... like come on man, it's your ma you're talking about

It's sadly realistic to sons to dismiss their mothers. :/

Purple Library Guy
Kare%20kano%20joker
joined Mar 3, 2013

So who's that jerk on the last page giving our cinnamon roll prof grief? So that stuff happened to him, so you got nothing better to do than rake it up?

X2(edited)2
joined Jan 2, 2022

I don't remember the early chapters that well, but this felt like a really explicit showing of Yoshiko's romantic interest in Hanayo. I thought it might have been more ambiguous before, but maybe I don't remember it that well.

Also, the professor made me cry.

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joined May 3, 2020

I don't remember the early chapters that well, but this felt like a really explicit showing of Yoshiko's romantic interest in Hanayo. I thought it might have been more ambiguous before, but maybe I don't remember it that well.

Yoshiko takes Hanayo on a date ( https://dynasty-scans.com/chapters/hanamonogatari_ch03#22 ) to make her a perfume, and then to dinner. The perfume making place (https://dynasty-scans.com/chapters/hanamonogatari_ch04#21 ) and the restaurant (https://dynasty-scans.com/chapters/hanamonogatari_ch05#8 ) are both run by two women that Yoshiko knows. Hanayo finally asks, and the lady at the restaurant confirms that she and the perfume lady are a lesbian couple. And that they have been for 30 years (https://dynasty-scans.com/chapters/hanamonogatari_ch05#23 ) .
Hanayo cries in the restaurant bathroom upon the realisation that there are other paths she could've followed in life, and that there are people her age who have braved those paths (https://dynasty-scans.com/chapters/hanamonogatari_ch05#26 ) . (reminder that Hayano has always had lesBIan leanings https://dynasty-scans.com/chapters/hanamonogatari_ch02#1 )
In the taxi home, Yoshiko barely restrains herself to hold Hayano's hand. ( https://dynasty-scans.com/chapters/hanamonogatari_ch05#30 )

And that's all Volume 1. So, i it's always been very strongly hinted at. So much so, that i think this deserves a Romance tag.

Anyway, rereading this, I relearned that Keito, Hayano's son, was always been a butt https://dynasty-scans.com/chapters/hanamonogatari_ch01#28 . I'm glad Hayano has such a good daughter in law and granddaughter to make up for it.

joined Oct 6, 2014

hell yeah return of grandma yuri

Index%20(6)
joined Mar 27, 2021

glad this has returned

Noodlerama001
joined Feb 24, 2023

Oh was it I uncancelled? I hope so man

D5aad09a-7f7c-4c16-aad1-2b0b94587149
joined Nov 13, 2022

Cute idol lesbian gf???? :D

butches-and-chicken
Cachorra
joined Jun 12, 2023

This chapter was really nice!!

joined Oct 27, 2018

I did not know this existed until today. I was excited at the prospect of an older women Yuri. Unfortunately this definitely isn't me. Yet another manga about how important it is to be feminine and pretty doesn't appeal to me. Even though I have been wanting a Yuri about older women.
Edit: Before anyone comes at me, I'm aware it's got some other lofty things, like the toxicity of her husband and downplaying the intelligence of women. Using conventional femininity as a basis to do so, all while forcing said femininity on women, but it must be the right kind of femininity. I fully understand that, trust me. However, it ultimately still presents this as the superior, maybe even more natural way for women to live. It just isn't for me.

last edited at Jul 9, 2025 3:15PM

Ykn1
joined Dec 20, 2018

Wow, this was quite something! And looks like Yoshiko herself had to learn about prettying up for her own sake from her own beloved as well.

D5aad09a-7f7c-4c16-aad1-2b0b94587149
joined Nov 13, 2022

I did not know this existed until today. I was excited at the prospect of an older women Yuri. Unfortunately this definitely isn't me. Yet another manga about how important it is to be feminine and pretty doesn't appeal to me. Even though I have been wanting a Yuri about older women.
Edit: Before anyone comes at me, I'm aware it's got some other lofty things, like the toxicity of her husband and downplaying the intelligence of women. Using conventional femininity as a basis to do so, all while forcing said femininity on women, but it must be the right kind of femininity. I fully understand that, trust me. However, it ultimately still presents this as the superior, maybe even more natural way for women to live. It just isn't for me.

I can definitely see where you're coming from; I just want to add a couple of things. Firstly, while I think that throwing out gendered beauty standards as a whole would be a powerful and helpful thing to do, it's also a huge jump for someone who has been operating under strict beauty standards her whole life. I think that makeup can be one tool, like a stepping stone, that can allow people to see that they can be beautiful, especially if they've never felt beautiful before.

Secondly, I think some women feel like they are forced into giving up their femininity as they age. Yes, femininity shouldn't be the most important thing in someone's life; I don't think any gender performance should consume someone entirely. But for a lot of us, it is an important part of how we perceive ourselves. So as far as I'm concerned, it can be healing to try something different. Clothes and makeup are ultimately only clothes and makeup. Our main character is using them to mend her relationship to herself and to the social world she inhabits. If she decided to dress more masculine to achieve the same result, I would be just as happy for her. I don't think she's being forced into anything here.

Ykn1
joined Dec 20, 2018

I don't think she's being forced into anything here.

In fact, the latest chapter specifically brought up the difference between being forced to look a certain way and simply doing it to feel good about yourself.

joined Oct 27, 2018

My personal distaste for these narratives has nothing to do with if the characters are physically forced or not. It's from a much broader point of view. Pointing out how bad it is to force doesn't mean much if the end goal and result is the same. That this is often treated as the default mode of healing for women is ultimately my real critique. How they must feel good and confident about themselves. I won't lie. "I do it for me" always feels more like a cope that doesn't engage with broader society to me. Though like i said. It isn't for me, but if y'all like it, great. I'm glad it resonates with some people.

Leaping%20cow
joined Sep 27, 2017

I think the characters are engaging with beauty in a way that makes themselves feel good, and is a way that is personally empowering to them. The story and narrative doesn't feel negative about makeup, beauty, and aging, rather it feels like it's embracing these elements in a positive way that are all part of the characters lives and important to them.

joined Oct 27, 2018

I think the characters are engaging with beauty in a way that makes themselves feel good, and is a way that is personally empowering to them. The story and narrative doesn't feel negative about makeup, beauty, and aging, rather it feels like it's embracing these elements in a positive way that are all part of the characters lives and important to them.

This will probably be my last comment as I don't want to make a big argument. I was really just posting my thoughts. I do want to clarify that my critique, and how I usually critique fiction, is very out of universe, non-diagetic. It doesn't really take into account how the characters feel in universe.

Leaping%20cow
joined Sep 27, 2017

I think the characters are engaging with beauty in a way that makes themselves feel good, and is a way that is personally empowering to them. The story and narrative doesn't feel negative about makeup, beauty, and aging, rather it feels like it's embracing these elements in a positive way that are all part of the characters lives and important to them.

This will probably be my last comment as I don't want to make a big argument. I was really just posting my thoughts. I do want to clarify that my critique, and how I usually critique fiction, is very out of universe, non-diagetic. It doesn't really take into account how the characters feel in universe.

Personally I think how the characters feel in universe is an important part of the discussion. The general tone of the story and how it's framed are both also important. Yeah though it's better to not argue. Everyone has their own experiences and ways of engaging with the world and everything in it.

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joined Mar 4, 2018

Sure like her bobbed hair cut.

joined Oct 11, 2019

This will probably be my last comment as I don't want to make a big argument. I was really just posting my thoughts. I do want to clarify that my critique, and how I usually critique fiction, is very out of universe, non-diagetic. It doesn't really take into account how the characters feel in universe.

You are objectively correct and I'm glad you said it.

Leaping%20cow
joined Sep 27, 2017

This will probably be my last comment as I don't want to make a big argument. I was really just posting my thoughts. I do want to clarify that my critique, and how I usually critique fiction, is very out of universe, non-diagetic. It doesn't really take into account how the characters feel in universe.

You are objectively correct and I'm glad you said it.

I think everyone in the conversation was valid in sharing their thoughts and views, as everyone has their own perspective and that's part of how discussion expands as people share. I personally can't say any singular person is objectively correct as I don't want to invalidate anyone in the discussion, and doing so feels very rude.

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joined Apr 25, 2020

I was just thinking about this today and now it's back! SO GOOD!

nah but fr I really like this manga and this chapter was great. Their relationship really seemed adapted to the times they lived (likely, the 80s, I guess? Or maybe even earlier?). Getting to know about her older loves and her older self also adds a lot to her character depth. I also really like how this manga is very subtle about everything, they never have to say explicitly what's happening, the characters never spell their actual desires or intentions precisely demonstrating how the world has shaped their views and ways on homosexuality.

I would like it even better if it got updated more regularly tho /j (or not?)

last edited at Jul 10, 2025 1:19AM

Eterna%20rinebow%20small
joined Oct 20, 2017

I did not know this existed until today. I was excited at the prospect of an older women Yuri. Unfortunately this definitely isn't me. Yet another manga about how important it is to be feminine and pretty doesn't appeal to me. Even though I have been wanting a Yuri about older women.

When you dismiss a yuri manga about women in their 60s because the apropos of their meeting was beauty, but with feminist sounding words. Bleak.

I do want to clarify that my critique, and how I usually critique fiction, is very out of universe, non-diagetic. It doesn't really take into account how the characters feel in universe.

It's very common for manga about adult women to show the ways in which women navigate and negotiate their position in patriarchy, which includes beauty. I find it a little odd that you took issue with that in, of all things, a series about two lesbian women in their 60s.

You have the right to dislike any piece of fiction for any reason, but that does not mean the commentary where you express that dislike is insightful enough to be considered a "critique".

1453e55cc3ab545974cae651c20afaf3
joined May 28, 2021

This might be my favorite current Yuri manga at this point, bar none. Excellent art, compelling characters, well written, completely different take on the classic genre archetypes.Just the fact that it's centered around older people with lots of baggage instead of high schoolers. Absolutely solid work all around.

1pixel
joined Dec 3, 2010

Both Kiyomi san and Doujima san can be good good friends.
See how they complain their works in such longggggggg sentences that it almost cover 3/4 of the panel! The synergy!! (⁠ ⁠ꈍ⁠ᴗ⁠ꈍ⁠)

Oh but, it got me wonder..

What happened to Kiyomi san ?

I'm sorry to be curious about it and I hope there's nothing bad happening to her.
Please no, because the last time they saw each other was her saying something about an audition and an old man producer.

And then story about her retiring early..
Then finally able to debut and sing on national tv after 20 years.. that's very long (⁠˘⁠・⁠_⁠・⁠˘⁠)

Kiyomi san...(⁠˘⁠・⁠_⁠・⁠˘⁠)

last edited at Jul 15, 2025 10:58AM

And They Were Roommates
E3fwhq4xeagjxjd
joined Apr 17, 2023

yay a new chapter of my favorite elderly lesbians! I'm glad this is still being updated
Also she looks good for being 69 years old wow
And of course the man had to ruin it in the end

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