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joined Oct 14, 2014

Mei is discovering who she is through love good for her good for her. Watch her reject everyone and get with some actual random girl who showed up out of nowhere at the end

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joined Jan 2, 2022

Mei is discovering who she is through love good for her good for her. Watch her reject everyone and get with some actual random girl who showed up out of nowhere at the end

Mei discovering herself is great. Thinking you love everyone you kiss is not so great. It feels like a really shallow use of love which in a high school aged character I think I'd be more ready to believe or ignore.

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joined Sep 27, 2017

Mei is discovering who she is through love good for her good for her. Watch her reject everyone and get with some actual random girl who showed up out of nowhere at the end

Mei discovering herself is great. Thinking you love everyone you kiss is not so great. It feels like a really shallow use of love which in a high school aged character I think I'd be more ready to believe or ignore.

People are still growing and learning at all ages, and she's still pretty young at least (18-20...? Unless I'm remembering wrong). If she was more so around late 20s and above I'd be a little more worried I think lol

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joined Jun 6, 2020

Mei discovering herself is great. Thinking you love everyone you kiss is not so great. It feels like a really shallow use of love which in a high school aged character I think I'd be more ready to believe or ignore.

she's like 19 and this is her first time actually being wanted in a relationship. That was like part of the concept at launch in which she was getting rejected by straight girls in high school, but now in college she has a whole bunch of women after her

Roody
joined Feb 11, 2022

So like did Mei and Sensei actually fuck or was it just a makeout session

Bagpipe%20cute
joined Sep 27, 2017

Mei discovering herself is great. Thinking you love everyone you kiss is not so great. It feels like a really shallow use of love which in a high school aged character I think I'd be more ready to believe or ignore.

she's like 19 and this is her first time actually being wanted in a relationship. That was like part of the concept at launch in which she was getting rejected by straight girls in high school, but now in college she has a whole bunch of women after her

Yeah the setup from the very start is that she didn't have any success with romance in high school, so afterwards she enters college and dyes her hair to help reinvent herself, while swearing that college will be where she's able to find love. So she's very inexperienced with love and aiming to experience it for the first time with college. Her lack of experience is very reasonable and well explained, not everyone finds love while in high school.

Yuibless
joined Jan 30, 2017

I'm positive they won't be able to keep it in their pants for four whole years. There's just no way.

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joined Nov 27, 2022

So like did Mei and Sensei actually fuck or was it just a makeout session

I wanted soooo much more TnT but at least we got that much ♡

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joined Jan 18, 2017

So like did Mei and Sensei actually fuck or was it just a makeout session

In my head canon, they fucked.

joined May 10, 2021

I know it's probably doomed, but o really fucking want Mei to stay single for four years. I really want my age-gap ship to sail.
Also which kind of professor drives a fucking Urus?! I really get why Mei would want to become a psychology teacher.
Thanks for the chapter!

Ewe
joined Jan 22, 2017

Teacher is one of my least favorites and I feel like I have seen too many "wait x years for me" storys already. I guess I'm hard to please with harem yuri. Also Kaoru is a coward. Less long nails, more action.

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joined Jan 2, 2022

Y'all, I'm aware of the premise, I didn't just pop into the 40th chapter randomly. I know she's inexperienced, I still don't think inexperience equates to just assuming love from every physical encounter. Plus, she doesn't need to have experienced it herself, by college you would be aware of other people's relationships, people dating and breaking up, and also hookup culture. Like, I can fully believe that she is personally inexperienced, I have a friend that didn't date until after college. But that's different than being naive to the point of assuming love in every physical encounter.

Bagpipe%20cute
joined Sep 27, 2017

Y'all, I'm aware of the premise, I didn't just pop into the 40th chapter randomly. I know she's inexperienced, I still don't think inexperience equates to just assuming love from every physical encounter. Plus, she doesn't need to have experienced it herself, by college you would be aware of other people's relationships, people dating and breaking up, and also hookup culture. Like, I can fully believe that she is personally inexperienced, I have a friend that didn't date until after college. But that's different than being naive to the point of assuming love in every physical encounter.

I suppose it's simply one of those situations where it doesn't work for you, but it works for me and the other person that responded. Her lack of experience and over excitement with finding love is cute to me, and not unbelievable. We were mentioning the premise because that's why it works for us, though there's nothing wrong with having different views and opinions of her characterization here. So all I can say is I wish you well, and I'm at least going to keep enjoying the series and her adorable naivety.

joined Oct 21, 2013

Teacher is one of my least favorites and I feel like I have seen too many "wait x years for me" storys already. I guess I'm hard to please with harem yuri. Also Kaoru is a coward. Less long nails, more action.

She's all about taste, not touch - acts with her tongue, not fingers.

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joined Oct 25, 2023

Teacher is one of my least favorites and I feel like I have seen too many "wait x years for me" storys already. I guess I'm hard to please with harem yuri. Also Kaoru is a coward. Less long nails, more action.

She's all about taste, not touch - acts with her tongue, not fingers.

Even if her she's useless with her fingers, it's a safe bet that she'll make up for that with her tongue. ;)

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joined Jul 24, 2020

Maria-sensei is the best aaaaaaaaah <3333333

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joined Apr 27, 2014

Yay I am betting all on Maria-sensei, but as someone mentioned, MC might end up with this person who texted her, I don't even remember now but I think she liked this one in her old school or something...eh something like that.

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joined Jul 26, 2023

Date in four years? Yeah, Maria is not endgame.

Stardusttelepath8
joined Oct 15, 2014

Date in four years? Yeah, Maria is not endgame.

Hey, she said if they're single (フリー if you wanna get technical) in four years, not that she has to remain single for that long.

Someroughclipping
joined Aug 28, 2019

Date in four years? Yeah, Maria is not endgame.

Hey, she said if they're single (フリー if you wanna get technical) in four years, not that she has to remain single for that long.

Yah. She'll date around and maybe even fall in love with someone else but in the end, maybe she'll realize she's still thinking and hoping for Maria-sensei.

Then again, I'm delulu, so maybe not.

GottaLoveRarePairs
joined Sep 10, 2022

So like did Mei and Sensei actually fuck or was it just a makeout session

If you look at page 0168 when Mei has a flashback, you can see that she and Sensei were naked and panting while they were kissing. Also, for what it's worth, the first page of the chapter is a splash page of Sensei naked under the sheets looking at the viewer is the sort of image you'd see for a typical "Morning After" scene.

So signs are pointing to "Yes, Mei and Sensei did actually sleep together."

As for the endgame, we'll have to wait and see, but looking at Tamamusi-sensei's Twitter page, there's at least one more official artwork there of Mei and Sensei naked together and another artwork of them both together in wedding dresses. Granted, that could just be fan service and isn't a smoking gun, but IMO I'd say the most likely MeiBowl winners from the harem are either Sensei or Riri, followed by Mei's old senpai from high school.

My gut is leaning towards Mei ending up with Sensei though, with with the other four harem girls all being paired together (Riri/Karin, Kaoru/Minato) and Mei finally getting a love confession from her senpai, but having to reject her after moving on and falling for Sensei.

last edited at Mar 28, 2025 2:27PM

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joined Oct 30, 2021

Gg team Sensei, we were cooked from the beginning

Ykn1
joined Dec 20, 2018

Author: "You thought this was madness? You haven't even seen the true madness this can descend into!" :D

last edited at Mar 28, 2025 5:28PM

DivineAlexandra
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joined Jun 22, 2018

So like did Mei and Sensei actually fuck or was it just a makeout session

If you look at page 0168 when Mei has a flashback, you can see that she and Sensei were naked and panting while they were kissing. Also, for what it's worth, the first page of the chapter is a splash page of Sensei naked under the sheets looking at the viewer is the sort of image you'd see for a typical "Morning After" scene.

So signs are pointing to "Yes, Mei and Sensei did actually sleep together."

I just feel like there'd be more mention of it rather than just "kissing and hugging". I would find it hard to believe if they really didn't go all the way considering the situation but it wouldn't be entierly far-fetched considering Mei's until-then extreme innocence.

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joined Nov 13, 2022

Also wasn't she saying that she wanted to hold her and be held? If that is the standard Japanese euphemism for sex, then it would seem to me that they hadn't slept together yet. But I was also confused about it...

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