I love the comment section, I gotta side with the person who says she can be gone for weeks or months, needly people are my nemesis, lol, I am quite in my head or just, existing, I am known to be missing in action for lengthy periods of time, I don't think a partner needs a special treatment that my friends won't get, I mean, making someone feel anxious on purpose? no. Being responsible for someone who is already prone to anxiety..hell no. I just tell new people beforehand that I'm like that.
Where my avoidant people at? xD
or maybe it's the autism
I dunno, I just don't like people keeping a close eye on me.