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joined Jul 23, 2014

Looking forward to Nagi's realization of her feelings.

543633_50
joined Sep 10, 2022

I love the confession. Glad it bucked the trendy thing and had her say it right there. Super fun. This is a lot more interesting now. I wonder how she'll figure herself out? Will the longing get her?

last edited at Sep 28, 2025 9:35AM

Mudou%20ayana
joined Oct 29, 2013

I'm super relieved that Asako just went and told the truth, that was quite mature! Now let's wait for Nagi to grow up too.

X2(edited)2
joined Jan 2, 2022

I guess it'll depend on how long it takes her to figure out her feelings, but when she does, is there anything left to tell? Are we in the end arc for this manga?

Subaru
joined Jul 31, 2019

when she does, is there anything left to tell?

There's still the mystery of the Loch Ness monster to solve

Pov_youre_a_triple_mugger
joined Feb 19, 2016

I guess it'll depend on how long it takes her to figure out her feelings, but when she does, is there anything left to tell? Are we in the end arc for this manga?

I think we may well be, and I don't find that too upsetting. Usui Shio has done a really good job with ending their manga in a very satisfying place and not dragging them out, and I'd hate to see that record fumbled here

joined Feb 24, 2023

Is “ I wanna date the girl I like and not flirt with other girls and make her upset” REALLY such a difficult answer to come too? lmfao

543633_50
joined Sep 10, 2022

Is “ I wanna date the girl I like and not flirt with other girls and make her upset” REALLY such a difficult answer to come too? lmfao

Well, she's basically being asked to "settle down," and that can definitely be a major decision for people. She doesn't seem sure of what her feelings mean yet.

last edited at Sep 28, 2025 3:27PM

Subaru
joined Jul 31, 2019

Is “ I wanna date the girl I like and not flirt with other girls and make her upset” REALLY such a difficult answer to come too? lmfao

Well, she's basically being asked to "settle down," and that can definitely be a major decision for people.

Except this is more like resigning from being an actual idol than picking just one person from many or something :P The whole setup being a bit on the nose doesn't help in making the dilemma not seem a bit silly too.

last edited at Sep 28, 2025 4:00PM

543633_50
joined Sep 10, 2022

Is “ I wanna date the girl I like and not flirt with other girls and make her upset” REALLY such a difficult answer to come too? lmfao

Well, she's basically being asked to "settle down," and that can definitely be a major decision for people.

Except this is more like resigning from being an actual idol than picking just one person from many or something :P The whole setup being a bit on the nose doesn't help in making the dilemma not seem a bit silly too.

Yeah but choosing a monogomous relationship over being an idol is a real world dilemma as well and a major one at times. It wouldn't call those silly, really. She is used to being popular and flirty with many women. That's what's made her comfortable up to now and she's had no desire to stop. Since her potential partner expressed discomfort, she has to decide if this feeling, for one, is actually romantic and then decide if that feeling is enough for her to let go of the "idol" days. That seems like something you'd want to think about before making a decision.

last edited at Sep 28, 2025 4:40PM

TheHusbandofAllTime
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joined Dec 2, 2024

HOLY SHIT! OPEN AND HONEST COMMUNICATION IN A YURI MANGA? LITERALLY JUST LAYING EVERY CARD ON THE TABLE? THE ONLY ISSUE OF "MISCOMMUNICATION" BEING THAT ONE OF THEM ISN'T FULLY CERTAIN YET? WHAT TWILIGHT ZONE AM I IN?

Cs4_cover
joined Jul 13, 2015

Ugh, teenagers, making it complicated

Sandra2
joined Mar 22, 2013

Is “ I wanna date the girl I like and not flirt with other girls and make her upset” REALLY such a difficult answer to come too? lmfao

Yes, because it is what she thought was her entire mindset. She is undergoing a major change. And she never thought about it before, so she needs time to get comfortable with this "new" idea. It makes sense in a way^^ Also Nagi still needs to realize how different those feelings are from the feelings that an idol is getting, I think.

But I really like, that we are avoiding a huge misunderstanding arc here. Or rather... we still have a misunderstanding, but the confession at least made sure of her feelings.

last edited at Sep 28, 2025 11:55PM

Unnamed
joined Sep 11, 2019

Ay wey me cagué jaja
Bro they got me in the first half xd
Asako u brave girl, poor Nagi, she literally has to abandon her whole personality if she wants to date Asako, but ofc it's gonna be worth it...

Someroughclipping
joined Aug 28, 2019

Asako communicating and skipping over the usual several chapters of misunderstandings. Bravo.

1pixel
joined Dec 3, 2010

This is a very interesting chapter.
To actually throw away that idol image Nagi san has always had must be difficult..

joined Jul 1, 2020

Such a wild contrast between this and her other series “Our Love is Disgusting”. Appreciate the twist with open communication and now ball is in Nagi’s court to figure out what she truly wants.

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