Seeing stuff like this, how some folks feel ashamed/are shamed for having weird sexual urges makes me glad I’m aroace.
Like 50% of the potential drama/heartache I’d experience in life is immediately cut out
that’s not how it bloody works tho, since you replace that supposed 50% with non romantic relationships, there is as much drama in them that you won’t feel the supposed “reduced” 50%, also that number it makes me feel like you have no idea how real life works, who says it’s 50% for every one? for yourself? when drama in relationships comes from having to deal with the other people interacting with you,
some people it’s the family and friends were the most drama/heartache comes from, less so from romantic&sexual relationship because they meed the right partner, others is the opposites, or even an blend of the 3!
so it’s all to bloody luck if you meet people that just suck you in some dumb drama! family, friendship, romantic partners, sexual partners, your BLOODY CO-WORKERS & BOSS!, and other people can make a huge mess of a drama because they affect every one.
so in the end, people aren’t having a more dramatic life just because they fuck or have romantic partners, it’s because they are interacting with other people and it all depends on bloody luck, and ofc it also depends on you.
last edited at Aug 19, 2024 12:20AM