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joined Apr 22, 2024

Everyone except Kaede is a bit entitled and unhinged. Learning love with lots of drama and misunderstanding. And she's still living together with her unrequited love? Poor Kaede.

Kuroko-railgun
joined Jul 21, 2024

the students are so entitled

I completely agree. The teacher shouldn't have to disclose her personal life to a group of students who respond with demeaning remarks.

joined Sep 25, 2017

The person who wrote the letter was probably that Nakanishi girl. I think it's foreshadowed here:
https://dynasty-scans.com/chapters/learning_love_ch01#5
https://dynasty-scans.com/chapters/learning_love_ch02#3

I don't really like the direction this series is taking

Yeah it's weird...I was expecting something different I guess? Maybe her figuring out her relationship better, maybe her jumping out of her current relationship and accidentally falling for a girl in her class that gave her a love letter...I don't know. Whatever direction we're currently sailing in feels all over the place...

Come on, It's only chapter 3, people. The manga it's obviously about teenage drama situations, let the author give us that. A lot of those scenarios can still happen with what we have so far.

last edited at May 11, 2025 3:46AM

Leaping%20cow
joined Sep 27, 2017

The person who wrote the letter was probably that Nakanishi girl. I think it's foreshadowed here:
https://dynasty-scans.com/chapters/learning_love_ch01#5
https://dynasty-scans.com/chapters/learning_love_ch02#3

I don't really like the direction this series is taking

Yeah it's weird...I was expecting something different I guess? Maybe her figuring out her relationship better, maybe her jumping out of her current relationship and accidentally falling for a girl in her class that gave her a love letter...I don't know. Whatever direction we're currently sailing in feels all over the place...

Come on, It's only chapter 3, people. The manga it's obviously about teenage drama situations, let the author give us that. A lot of those scenarios can still happen with what we have so far.

Well in my opinion the teen drama here feels off, I don't mind it in plenty of manga but something about here didn't click. It's true that the series could still be good but this chapter simply felt weird to me. If you loved the chapter and are excited for more that's entirely fair as well, nothing wrong with having different opinions.

Pfp2
joined Jan 11, 2022

First of all to Cuetie scans thanks for the scanlation/upload!

The amount of discomfort in the comments is interesting, this manga looked like it was going to be a hot mess from the first chapter.

But this is what I appreciate the most about manga, it's free enough to explore things that would never see the light of day in the West. I believe that nearly anything that makes the reader think/feel any strong emotion is a good thing, the only thing I would ask is that people question why they react so strongly to the material they're reading, introspection is always a good thing!

Pfp2
joined Jan 11, 2022

the students are so entitled

I completely agree. The teacher shouldn't have to disclose her personal life to a group of students who respond with demeaning remarks.

I think the reason the students feel like they can trample on their teacher(s) is the seemingly small age gap between the students and teachers (at least to my eye, the teachers all appear to be young) and that combined with the lack of discipline in the school will inevitably lead to students pushing the boundary between student and teacher.

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Cachorra
joined Jun 12, 2023

Ok what happened to respect your teacher? What the heck.

butches-and-chicken
Cachorra
joined Jun 12, 2023

I think the reason the students feel like they can trample on their teacher(s) is the seemingly small age gap between the students and teachers (at least to my eye, the teachers all appear to be young) and that combined with the lack of discipline in the school will inevitably lead to students pushing the boundary between student and teacher.

Someone really needs to give this students a lesson because this is not okay. Having casual talks, having conversations as friends with a teacher and joking with/ at a teacher is ok (depending on the joke, of course), but this is just straight up disrespectful to Kaede. And, to be honest, it's disrespectful to anyone, being a teacher or not.

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Capture
joined Aug 12, 2021

Kaede is beset by heterosexuals on all fucking sides lmao.

Like she is just being harrassed by people who believe it's fine because she has to be straight. Like whether he means to or not Itaoka is very much putting her in a position where her only choice is to endure the harrasment of the female students who crush on him because even if she was straight if she started dating him she'd be hated, and if she declines as she does she'll be hated.

And then! The mystery love letters, which might come from Oda considering he was literally in the room, or from Nakanishi who seems to be his friend and whose letter he could have delivered in her stead.

It just all kind of sucks to be in the center of. Because it's not like Kaede can just out herself, not only because that sucks to do, but because her actual partner and girlfriend has already threatened to break up with her if she does!

joined Aug 11, 2022

EDIT: Got ninja in my theory about who might be the sender behind love-letter...GG

...Hmmm....I am going to place a small be that nakanishi (Girl who kick the wall) has a crush on our MC...It being Oda-kun is too easy and simple...Plus Oda-kun gives off a a casual relax vibe that is a bystander watching a mess unfold.

Evidence: Chapter 1, you can see Oda-kun and Nakanishi walking together in chapter 1. Oda-kun gives off a mature smart student vibe, the way he is talking...Either he is very in control of his emotions and he was actually the person who send the love letter....Or he knows his friend (Nakanishi) send the letter, saw her entering the door to place and giving MC cryptic messages/warning that (Nakanishi) is being hurt by MC's actions.

Nakanish shows no respect for the male teacher (MC notice she didn't add Sensei) and her 'scum' remark might be referring to male teacher...But if (Chance or in case) she was refferring to the MC...then FK HER, ENTITLED BRAT!!!

Miki (Girl who confessed to male teacher and got rejected...) is very entitled girl with 1st world problems...Sure her feelings might be hurting but our MC deserves none of this drama and sh*t...

Not to mention Male teacher here...He was listening in [I am assuming he was listening to MC get roasted by her students...] but didn't even step in to help or help to clear up the misunderstanding to avoid any emotional backlash...Just letting MC take all the heat...Honestly if he was a 'REAL' Gentleman then he would have apologize to the MC then done to Miki, apologize to Miki for rejecting her but trying to make her understand that it would be improper to have a relationship as teacher/student, thanking her for her feeling/telling her he feels flattered and tell her that she will find another man that she will love eventually.

RIP MC...having to deal with Teenager drama from emotional students.

Miki's friend's parents are noisy jerks...Telling their daughter gossip about MC and male teacher eating dinner together which the daughter told Miki....

I remember gossip about teachers getting pregnant when I was a high schooler but nothing like this lmao. I wonder if its a cultural difference or if everyone is just unhinged.

Yeah, I too wonder if this shit actually happens in japanese schools and how behind they're in social terms if it actually does. I'm latin american and none of this happened in any school I ever went to.

...Just because it doesn't or didn't happen in your school just means your generation is probably raised as good people by their parents...I mean I had a pretty decent school life (There were jerks here or there, some fights breaking out at times before teacher stop them but overall decent experience without much drama). Try not to overgeneralize a country or the types of schools in a country just based on a manga lol [But yes different countries will have different social culture and background which is correct, some are behind while some equal to America], you don't see me thinking every school in America will have a shooting every year just because a rare few instances happen every few years XD

It mostly depends on what type of school, what types of kids in the school involved (Depending on economic background, type of neighborhood and type of teachers at school)....For example if you read a lot of articles you would be reading about student punching their teachers in America (Some are kind of understandable reaction like a student punching a teacher for slamming a door on his arm but most are not...) that happen more than twice perhaps a every few years. I think there was even new articles about a student punching a vice-principal then pulling out a gun to threat him...thankfully he got arrested. There are even article about student stabbing their teacher or the vice--principal...The world is a very big place (Also very messed up place at times )...Just be thankful you never have to deal with the very very crazy stuff that happens IRL XD

...But yes that Miki girl is a very entitled person (1st world problems...big deal for her but minor issues compared to most people lives)...Yes I can understand she has issues still getting over being rejected and her crush (Probably her first crush and she feels like it's special) on the male teacher is making her act irrational/emotional....MC does not deserve any of that though but sadly she gives off submissive and breedable vibes that lets her students not see her a threatening...Useful for getting along with students in a friendly manner...But bad in getting somewhat fearful respect from her students.

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joined Jan 21, 2020

Yea idk so far this manga is just putting the MC in one shit situation after the other and hitting her with the "maybe ur actions affect people" like no fuck off

butches-and-chicken
Cachorra
joined Jun 12, 2023

Yea idk so far this manga is just putting the MC in one shit situation after the other and hitting her with the "maybe ur actions affect people" like no fuck off

It's other people's actions that are affecting her at this point lol.

Not to mention Male teacher here...He was listening in [I am assuming he was listening to MC get roasted by her students...] but didn't even step in to help or help to clear up the misunderstanding to avoid any emotional backlash...Just letting MC take all the heat...

Yeah, I'm pretty mad at him, making things worse and not noticing that she's not interested in him, no, I think he noticed but didn't care, which makes it worse.

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joined Jun 21, 2021

On a "Supportive Class" scale that ranges from Our Teachers Are Dating to Yoarashi Ni Warau, this one def sits in the milder section of it but man, those kids really do have no respect for their teacher, huh

Capture
joined Aug 12, 2021

Thinking on things a little more I don't think it's all that likely that Kaede will actually start dating a student even if that student is Nakanishi.

What I think is more likely is that if Nakanashi is who we think she is, Kaede will blurt out that she's already dating Nami and then Kaede will be in trouble because of the ultimatum she recieved at the end of chapter 1.

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joined Jun 6, 2020

Poor Kaede, everyone around her is a douche

Cs4_cover
joined Jul 13, 2015

That freaking anoying pushing her into misurstanding while she in on relationship

Sin%20t%c3%adtulo-min
joined Sep 28, 2011

I'm a teacher and I was once on a similar situation:

I used to be quite close to my students, they would ask me and consult to me about their daily lives and whatnot. However, because I didn't set the correct boundaries at the time, they started to engage me as their friend, not their teacher, and a couple of girls became quite entitled about the time I gave them, which in turn gave fuel for other students to start spreading disgusting rumors about me. You can imagine the kind.

I had to stand in front of my class and quite seriously remind everybody that:
a) I was their teacher, not one of their classmates
b) The time I gave to my students was as a teacher, nothing more
c) Spreading rumors about people without properly talking with them is a terribly selfish and damaging thing to do.

Afterwards, I stopped consultations and put a barrier with that years' students. Teenagers are complicated and, as adults, we sometimes have to put on a more stern attitude to avoid missunderstandings. It sucks and all, but in today's world we have t be strategic about every interaction, all the time, to cover ourselves.

Noodlerama001
joined Feb 24, 2023

Wow everyone at this school is a unlikable piece of shit LOL

LilyScentedBubbleBath
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joined Sep 15, 2020

Why my girl Kaede going through it bruh TOT

2here3there
joined Mar 19, 2022

Being Kaede is suffering huh

joined Nov 22, 2019

Yea idk so far this manga is just putting the MC in one shit situation after the other and hitting her with the "maybe ur actions affect people" like no fuck off

Yeah, the drama and putting the mc in a shitty situation is one thing, but the way the story seems to be implying she was at least partially responsible for it is what's really taking me out.

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joined May 11, 2013

The real mistake was letting her students be so casual with her at the start of the year. Now she's stuck in a situation where she's going to be villainized no matter what she does, which will probably continue to snowball until her girlfriend breaks up with her and/or she's forced to transfer to a different school to start over. Or maybe she'll learn how to put her foot down and set better boundaries with her students. May or may not help at this point.

DivineAlexandra
Ihstarresi
joined Jun 22, 2018

"Your actions have consequences" yeah, but what actions tho? Trying to be nice and accomodating to everyone? Actually listening to people? How dare she!

The real mistake was letting her students be so casual with her at the start of the year. Now she's stuck in a situation where she's going to be villainized no matter what she does, which will probably continue to snowball until her girlfriend breaks up with her and/or she's forced to transfer to a different school to start over. Or maybe she'll learn how to put her foot down and set better boundaries with her students. May or may not help at this point.

I just don't think it'd make much of a difference because of how she's portrayed to be. Even if she had tried to set down her foot earlier, they would've either ignored it or felt betrayed and nothing would've changed from current situation. She's basically been set up to fail from the very get-go, no fault of her own, simply because she's young, inexperienced and too eager to please.

last edited at May 11, 2025 2:50PM

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joined Feb 21, 2019

If I was her In resigning immediately and moving to the opposite side of the country with my gf

joined Jan 14, 2020

If I was her In resigning immediately and moving to the opposite side of the country with my gf

Gf works there too. Probably doesn't want to move.

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