Oh, come on... I find the romanticizing of the idea that love can survive any kind of abuse and disrespect absolutely disgusting.
Right! It is all very icky
I mean, they're children. Kids lash out, do things they don't mean, say things they don't feel. They don't understand how to process their feelings and they mishandle things all the time. There's a reason we don't punish children for doing things that are crimes in the same way we punish adults. They don't know how any of it works. And that's so much harder when you have a kind of feeling about your friend that society tells you you aren't supposed to have.
Like, it's up to every individual how much they're willing to forgive. And I definitely wouldn't point to this as a model to follow, for anybody. But we don't just read stories because they're good models for how to behave. We read stories because they're interesting, and two kids learning how to have feelings for each other in the worst way possible, while probably not a good lesson for anybody, is certainly interesting to watch.