Man these two are just too intense for friendship, if they liked each other romantically then this series makes sense otherwise it's just kinda weird
Honestly, if the author is trying to tell us about toxic co dependent relationships instead of yuri ones, everything kinda checks out
I'd say: not yet it doesn't. There's part of codependency going on--the reliance on another person for approval and sense of identity--but there's not really much controlling behavior or enabling of negative behaviors, nor is there self-sacrifice or self-denial in favor of the other person's needs.
I would agree with this if it weren’t for Konatsu’s behavior during chapters 21-24, where she literally doesn’t want Koyuki to do what she wants to do (make new friends, change for the better) because then Koyuki wouldn’t depend on her, and their relationship would lose their special-ness. Stuff like that happens when people choose to latch onto one person, instead of branching out and making more friends, and having healthier relationships. Maybe toxic is too strong of a word, but to me it seems like she doesn’t really know how close she’s supposed to get to Koyuki, which is why she is actively making sure she isn’t being “selfish” if we use her words, while us as readers know that she wishes to be.
Looking at the whole Karaoke event as an example: she couldn’t even have fun with other people because Koyuki wasn’t around (we’ve actually seen this numerous times, even in this chapter). It became to the point where she pulled Koyuki out of her own event. Although her actions in the end were fine, it very much mirrored the salamander trapping the frog. Koyuki doesn’t do this emotionally, she seems to be fine with making other friends, and just needed that push to do so.
Looking even at the career survey, Konatsu doesn’t care about what she does as long as it’s with Koyuki (I mean, we all know she didn’t join the aquarium club because she liked fish .-.). If we are looking at the story from a darker, less yuri point of view, Konatsu seems to be someone who latches on to the things that bring her comfort (I’d like to bring up what her dad said in ch 7 as a point, he mentioned that he was so glad that she could get herself engrossed in something over there as well, implying she’s done so in the past). This could simply be because she felt like Koyuki could be someone to save her from her loneliness, or some angst filled backstory, which led her to developing abandonment issues. All in all, I wouldn’t necessarily denote her behavior as healthy.
Although after 26, their relationship has become healthier, Konatsu still has to understand that she can’t be emotionally reliant on Koyuki, which it appears she is trying not to be. I’ll rephrase my original post: if not a romance, the story appears to be depicting an unbalanced relationship, rather than Co-dependent, since it’s mostly Konatsu actively acting like a salamander, and Koyuki is mostly just socially awkward.
Edit: looking back on it I just realized that I agree with you lol
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