also... not to revive an ended argument (i'm just sharing my perspective), but when you grow up autistic etc, there are a lot of things that just don't click for you until years later. like, oh, that's what they meant! that's why that happened! like the distance and experience ties up the logical loose-ends. it's not about blame or "who's wrong" so much as what's healthier for shou right now. what's going to help her grow as a person? it's like a kind of closure. yeah, these people hurt you for reasons beyond your control, and that sucks. but you're a little older now, a little wiser, and you can handle things better than you could as a helpless child, so you take the bad parts and learn what you can from them. it's not redeeming or validating the bullies -- if anything, it's making them even more irrelevant in her life and future.
Well to me, that equates to essentially victim blaming, and the equating of character growth with becoming more conventional and sociable is something I personally don't like at all. Though, it isn't really my only reason for falling out of love with the series. Just the general vibe doesn't do it for me anymore. Personal tastes or changes or whatever. Its not a big deal.
But last time the bullies showed up (in chapter 13) they were depicted as a bunch of assholes despite being older now:
https://dynasty-scans.com/chapters/the_blue_star_on_that_day_ano_koro_no_aoi_hoshi_ch13_2#17
So I don't think the manga is trying to say Shou was to blame. I mean, they targeted her for being the weird kid in the class but they're assholes by nature, so even if they didn't target Shou, they would have targeted someone else.
Shou is definitely learning that her loner attitude might have pushed others away from her, but that and the bulling are different things, and I don't feel like the manga is trying to mix them up.
I also disagree that the manga is having Shou become more conventionally sociable just to showcase her character growth. Let's not forget she's not a loner by choice. She's a loner because her family situation is totally dysfunctional. Learning to make friends is part of the process of healing from the damage that lacking a mother in her life and having a drunkard father has inflected on her.
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