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Leaping%20cow
joined Sep 27, 2017

I think Hime-chan is just really intense and Yoru isn't.

I think that's exactly it, they're meant to be contrasting personality types for this rom-com that's focused on the main character being needy.

joined Feb 25, 2025

I have a feeling Yoru is going to 1) come out as a trans man and they are going to break up or 2) come out as ace and they are going to break up lol

Uh... How do you think that?? Because there's nothing in this manga that indicates either of these.

And I love Hime-chan and her dramas lol.

They think because Yoru is drawn with a guyish appearance they can't possibly be intended to be an actual girl. It's just shallow appearance standards and gender conformity bullshit.

Or they're trolling. One or the other.

I know people online love to inmediately paint the other party as a bad person to win the argument but if you take the time to read my previous comments you can see why I said that. Also, you and I are strangers, please refrain from making assumptions about me.

last edited at May 21, 2025 5:47PM

joined Feb 25, 2025

I explained it in the comment above yours! No need to take it seriously because it’s a “Wouldn't it be fun if” type of comment
It's just that those are the only two options I can think about why Yoru feels "incapable" to reciprocate Hime's affection

Sorry, I didn't see it ^^

I'm sorry, but it's just that Yoru does not seem upset by Hime-chan's unhealthy needs, rather she seems sad for being ‘unable’ to respond with the same intensity as Hime-chan

Respond to the same intensity doesn't mean what you said before, maybe they aren't compatible or something. Well, there are cases that it is the reason, but I think Hime-chan is just really intense and Yoru isn't. At least that's what I think.

Yep, I get your point but it was a joke, that’s why I added the lol at the end. I was thinking about that meme with the lesbian who continues to make their partners realize that they are trans men

last edited at May 21, 2025 5:21PM

1pixel
joined Dec 3, 2010

Oh hey,Hime chan, a LINE message appeared!
(⁠ ⁠╹⁠▽⁠╹⁠ ⁠)

And um...
Am I the only one who sees Yoru san's appearance look more like BL?
I'm not used to it ಥ⁠‿⁠ಥ

I think I'll skip this
(Not that I've not seen mangas with short haired women--Ema san from Pinky Candy Kiss is one but this look is very different indeed)

Though I understand Hime san 's neediness
If her anxiety has already sprung up to that it has entirely affected her life, I may suggest her to go see doctor and take medication if possible.

Love is about trust
But ya, Yoru san not contacting her for 28hrs is a little bit off too. So it's understandable that she feels anxious and thought that Yoru san is already dead in that 28hrs.

last edited at May 23, 2025 10:34PM

Tron-legacy
joined Dec 11, 2017

So I wrote a reply to this, then saw the post after it, and decided to restructure this a bit. If anybody saw the other post, please ignore it, I was missing an important piece of context.

I know people online love to inmediately paint the other party as a bad person to win the argument but if you take the time to read my previous comments you can see why I said that. Also, you and I are strangers, please refrain from making assumptions about me.

I can turn that last sentence around on you, though. I wasn't trying to paint anybody as a bad person, and I wasn't trying to "win the argument," because we weren't arguing. To be frank, I wasn't actually regarding you as worth engaging with directly, because I honestly thought you were just trolling, but I've changed my opinion on that. I also wasn't trying to paint you as a bad person, I just was regarding you as someone who had presented a bad position on a single topic. I try to reserve judgement about people as a whole until they have thoroughly shown their full character to me. But I was misunderstanding you, and I apologize for that.

I'm sorry, but it's just that Yoru does not seem upset by Hime-chan's unhealthy needs, rather she seems sad for being ‘unable’ to respond with the same intensity as Hime-chan

At the time I posted, this is all I had to go on as your justification for your comment about Yoru being trans, and the thing is, this doesn't give a justification for Yoru being trans? It doesn't lead there at all. Even if it were true, and I don't really think it is, it doesn't have anything that hints to why that specific "inability to respond" had anything to do with transness. It seemed pretty non sequitur to me, to be honest. Though with the comment below, I actually get where your mindset was coming from:

Yep, I get your point but it was a joke, that’s why I added the lol at the end. I was thinking about that meme with the lesbian who continues to make their partners realize that they are trans men

The lol is what actually gave me the sense that you might be trolling, TBH. It's practically the mating call of the wild internet troll. But it's also common outside of that, so I gotta be wary of false positives. The comment that you were thinking about a meme about that specific subject actually does a lot more to clarify where your mindset came from than anything you posted before. That being the case, I definitely was assuming too much, and I'm sorry for that, too. I run across a lot of bias and prejudice and I've spent a lot of time recently with my guard up, for reasons most people in these forums probably understand well. (looks at the political landscape)

last edited at May 23, 2025 10:23PM

Linterdiction
Kiarabg
joined Sep 6, 2018

i love her so much lmao

4
joined Nov 21, 2018

she's just like me frfr

Touhou%20autismo
joined Nov 2, 2023

I used to be like Hime-chan a lot. I still am a bit like her but me and my gf communicate a lot so it's been okay, I've also went along some personal growth too but it took me a while to value myself even in the slightest bit.

butches-and-chicken
Cachorra
joined Jun 12, 2023

That was so nice :)

3737720892d1604e82a1e6a88a44b5f5
joined Jul 29, 2024

taking a stranger's picture and posting without consent is gross

last edited at Jun 30, 2025 1:56PM

Leaping%20cow
joined Sep 27, 2017

taking stranger's picture and posting without consent is gross

It really is. I also hate the pressure around having your picture taken, I constantly tell family that I don't want my picture taken, and then I'm met with well it'll be a nice memory! and so forth, maybe but I'm simply not comfortable with having my picture taken for a variety of reasons. One of which is that I really don't like how every company is using pictures and scraping everything for some ai gen nonsense. With how pictures are being used without permission by companies I don't think those companies usage of photos is safe, ethical, and I don't consent to it.

Img_4458
joined Mar 6, 2024

himechan update the world is saved

butches-and-chicken
Cachorra
joined Jun 12, 2023

taking stranger's picture and posting without consent is gross

It really is. I also hate the pressure around having your picture taken, I constantly tell family that I don't want my picture taken, and then I'm met with well it'll be a nice memory! and so forth, maybe but I'm simply not comfortable with having my picture taken for a variety of reasons. One of which is that I really don't like how every company is using pictures and scraping everything for some ai gen nonsense. With how pictures are being used without permission by companies I don't think those companies usage of photos is safe, ethical, and I don't consent to it.

Yeah and there are people who just don't like to take photos at all. Respect people's spaces, people!

Leaping%20cow
joined Sep 27, 2017

Yeah and there are people who just don't like to take photos at all. Respect people's spaces, people!

Exactly, thanks. I've always had issues with my picture being taken I should say, and the technology aspect is just another reason on top of it.

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