does this count as ntr technically
No, getting dumped for someone else isn't ntr.
It is if they were actively talked into it by someone, which the mistress was.
It's still not NTR though since the "protagonists" are the ones doing the seduction/being seduced, it's Netori.
Netorare = Having a loved one or lover taken away from you by someone else.
Netori = Taking a loved one or lover away from someone else.
(Not necessarily by force or romantically, but including, and whether the "taking away" is well intentioned towards and genuine towards the "loved one" doesn't change the definition.)
Consider my terminology button TRIGGERED (╯°□°)╯︵ ┻━┻
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