I have a question about something I’ve seen elsewhere. So here:
https://dynasty-scans.com/chapters/mai_no_mushigurashi_ch33#6
When Mai is washing Nana’s back she says “does this hurt?” I’ve seen characters say the same thing in the same situation in other stories.
My question is, is this the same as asking “do you hate it” about something the receiver should enjoy? As in, the giver is seeking validation that what they’re doing feels good for the receiver and the giver doesn’t actually think what they’re doing doesn’t feel good. Or, do Japanese bathers typically use a rough exfoliating cloth that might actually hurt?
I was in an Asian grocery yesterday and saw a lot of exfoliating cloths that are quite scratchy. So I wondered if this was the case.
last edited at Dec 19, 2021 10:19AM