I think the main character is simply not nice, at all. I have way more sympathy for the girl in the first chapter, now. Even moreso if that girl is "the one" being mentioned, since the selfish main character specifically admitted she was in love with her, because she obviously was literally not kind to even that girl at all. I think new girl needs to go into it with her eyes open. sometimes a tough, aloof, jaded woman may actually be a tough misanthropic bitch, you know. they're not all diamonds in the rough.