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joined Jul 25, 2014

well...at least there were yuri between those two hug pillows :v

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joined Oct 4, 2016

As a straight dude who likes yuri, I thought it was hysterical. Kinda reminds me of I Can't Understand What My Husband Is Saying.

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joined May 3, 2016

To the people who are offended by males liking Yuri, I'm pretty sure most people aren't like this guy. I, personally, just like romance stories, and come to Yuri for that. I've also read Yaoi as well as het stories before. If guys were mostly like this one, then I could see your frustration. However, that's probably not the case, most of the time.

Nezchan Moderator
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joined Jun 28, 2012

To the people who are offended by males liking Yuri, I'm pretty sure most people aren't like this guy. I, personally, just like romance stories, and come to Yuri for that. I've also read Yaoi as well as het stories before. If guys were mostly like this one, then I could see your frustration. However, that's probably not the case, most of the time.

Well, the original comment that got this line of conversation rolling said "guys who like yuri that much". So they were pretty clearly not talking about folks like you, and I daresay most of the guys here. If I read it right, it's directed at those who go overboard with the yuri worship.

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joined Dec 25, 2015

I relate to Yuri Lover-kun. I love yuri, but have no interest in dating in general. I just want all the girls to be together forever. T_T

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joined Jul 17, 2015

As someone who was friends with a lot of male otakus in high school, I can tell you that there are definitely people who take it way too far. I mean, it's true that a percentage of any given fanbase will include creepy guys, but there have been many instances where someone crossed a line. (For instance, opening up to a guy about liking yuri leading to him hitting on me in a creepy and uncomfortable way.)

Regardless, this seems cute. I'm interested to see where it goes.

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joined Dec 20, 2015

I'm a girl and I relate to yuri lover-kun too much to be healthy (Tbh, I don't give a damn if a guy likes yuri as long as he ain't fetishizing it, making inappropriate comments, and/or just being an asshole)

What about this isn't fetishizing it? honest question. That always feels like thought-crime to me, when people use words like that, but I'm here to learn.

But yeah the bit where he's like "I wish we were both girls, then we could be a couple!" Like yeah, of course you do, finally a man making sense.

We should all just accept that pretty much every romance story ever written is guilty of "Fetishizing" and that it's not necessarily a bad thing.

I mean like guys having fantasies of having a threesome with two lesbians and stuff like that (even though that would never actually happen because the girls are LESBIANS) to the point that he thinks that he'll be able to ACTUALLY get that to happen with himself or that he always talks about it and makes himself to be a total creep.

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joined Mar 20, 2017

I mean like guys having fantasies of having a threesome with two lesbians and stuff like that (even though that would never actually happen because the girls are LESBIANS) to the point that he thinks that he'll be able to ACTUALLY get that to happen with himself or that he always talks about it and makes himself to be a total creep.

I've never counted that thing as a male yuri lover

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joined Oct 4, 2016

For me, a lot of it is that I like super fluffy romance like Kase-san, and you are more likely to get that in yuri than elsewhere in my experience.

Another thing is that with het romance, one of the principals is a dude. And I'm a dude. So that gives me a point of self-insertion, and changes the mental dynamic for me. It becomes less "I am watching two people have a romance" and more "This guy is a twit because he's not doing what I would do in the same situation." My enjoyment of yuri doesn't really depend on how much either of the main romantic leads are like me, but my enjoyment of het romance does to some degree. Probably why I like Yandere Kanojo so much, because Manabu Tanaka is like a younger Japanese version of me.

last edited at Nov 11, 2017 9:09AM

joined Mar 15, 2015

I always get kinda yucked out by guys who like yuri that much

That kinda hurts to say it like that, to be honest :( . If a girl told me that she's a fujoshi I wouldn't mind at all.

I don't say around me that I love yuri because I know that they could think I'm strange but still.

Besides as the well known male yuri philosopher Purple Library Guy once said on batoto :

"For me it's a no-brainer. If you're het, what would you rather be looking at in a romance--a pretty girl and some dude, or two pretty girls? Question answers itself. Who wants some guy hogging the frames when you can have double the cuteness instead?"

Nezchan Moderator
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joined Jun 28, 2012

Besides as the well known male yuri philosopher Purple Library Guy once said on batoto :

"For me it's a no-brainer. If you're het, what would you rather be looking at in a romance--a pretty girl and some dude, or two pretty girls? Question answers itself. Who wants some guy hogging the frames when you can have double the cuteness instead?"

Except that, like bisexuals "having twice as much fun", nobody does that kind of calculation in practice. A het guy is more likely going to look for a type of romance he's used to, the sort he can identify with and maybe has experienced. For porn, yes. A lot of guys go for that because of the two-girls thing, but that's not much at all like real lesbians or even fictional lesbian romance. And for a good chunk of them, there's a bit of discomfort (for whatever reason) in looking at dicks to start with.

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joined Jul 29, 2017

One thing I like about yuri is that it can throw more twists into the basic rom-com narrative arc. (For whatever reasons, in recent years I’ve moved almost entirely away from stories, movies, TV, etc. in which people are killed, shot, tortured, or things blow up, especially ones where women are killed, etc.). Since, in a het-normative world, we (or the characters) don’t always start with the expectation of romantic involvement between the characters, there are a few more possible turns/paths before we get to plot resolution.

It’s similar to one reason I like Kdrama rom-coms—it’s not the het/non-het aspect, it’s that often the tsundere chaebol protagonists are so emotionally oblivious that they have no clue why they suddenly start going doki-doki in the presence of some obviously “unsuitable” partner.

In US stories, the initial presence of romantic attraction is often signaled by the principals playing tongue hockey and having sex up against a wall. So where do you go from there?

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joined May 4, 2013

I read Yuri to express my desire to be a raging lesbian. (Or for escapism)

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joined Mar 12, 2014

i think the gay gay needs to give up on this one

i mean your friend is clearly into girls

Hmmm doesn't sound too bad. It seems this guy just loves yuri love like all the ladies in the world getting their yuri partner... And i don't know if he just wants to make yuri love happen or if he wants to enjoy that stuff like most typical guys do.... XD

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joined Nov 18, 2017

I always get kinda yucked out by guys who like yuri that much

... You’re on Dynasty Reader.
And I’m a guy, but I like both Yuri me Yaoi, they are cute.

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joined Jan 7, 2018

was this dropped? too bad.

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joined Oct 1, 2014


I RELATE SO MUCH TO YURI LOVER-KUN!!!

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joined Feb 17, 2019


I RELATE SO MUCH TO YURI LOVER-KUN!!!

This made me laugh so hard

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joined Jun 27, 2014

It's too bad that this series was dropped; I was looking forward to more.
Previews for the next few chapters can be read here. It seems that an actual yuri couple and another yaoi couple join in as recurring characters.

Marion Diabolito
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joined Jan 5, 2015

Is the next phase when you obsess on particular yuri ships?

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joined Apr 20, 2013

Oh my, the memories... they're coming back! this was so funny and sweet

joined Jan 29, 2021

Okay... That was pretty funny. Not big on guys that fetishize wlw couples but this has mlm undertones so I like it

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joined Apr 4, 2021

Ended way too soon. Wish I could see Yuri-Lover Lover-Kun get closer to his dream!

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joined Apr 19, 2018

I don't think I understand who the intended audience is for this series, but best of luck I guess?

Straight male that loves yuri. Someone like... idk.... the other son of my brother's mom
awkwardly look away

Made me draw mental relationship charts and froze my brain for a solid 5 secs. 10/10 answer.
Also, same homie, same.

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