"I found this thing annoying when my boyfriends would do it but now that a woman I like is doing it, I totally get it" is such a good bit bc being gay really is like that!
Even on the grander scale of human experience, it's exactly like that. I really appreciated this particular moment because it's an incredibly meaningful self-realization moment that isn't all too dramatic.
I feel like a quiet theme of this manga, underneath the love square that's been hinted at, is the experience of queer realization as an adult. It's not explicitly stated, but Ren's actions and feelings have really done a good job of showing a woman who has been dealing with comphet and just assuming "that's how life is" and now is experiencing genuine attraction, desire and love for the first time.
EDIT: After all, she wasn't even dating men for pleasure. It was literally a job to her, not something she did because she wanted to! Feeling obligated to date men, and seeing those relationships as purely transactional and something to be suffered through, is absolutely a way comphet is experienced.
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