I… don’t understand why she’s so attached. How she even got attached, to the point where she’d rather have Sendai hate her to some extent just so she wouldn’t wanna go to her room
Not asking for major spoilers, but is there like, a backstory or smthn? Other than the mother thing? Or do ppl with abandonment issues just get attached to ppl they hang with super easy, even if they’re not actually friends with the person?
Does the scene play out better in the novel… man I really gotta read it
I hope the anime uses the WB's artstyle, the hair is so fluffy.
WB? Wazzat
My read, minimal WN spoilers:
Miyagi does have abandonment issues from her Mom’s departure and quite a bit of insecurity. This translates into a desire for control. Sendai is relatively safe for Miyagi because Miyagi’s views her through the lens of control. Miyagi can issue orders and push Sendai aside emotionally on her terms.
She can try and piss off Sendai into leaving and not view that as a bad outcome as long as she, Miyagi, is the one initiating such an event. If you have hangups about abandonment and control, forcing someone to hate you may feel safer than exposing yourself to be abandoned…
One thing that adds to this is that Sendai is actually a people pleaser and really quite fake with her school friends. She goes with the flow to maintain her status. Miyagi really loathes and does not trust this part of Sendai, and only likes Sendai when Sendai is in her room. This is also the only time Sendai (for her own reasons) feels safe and comfortable and more expressive.
The other side and tension to this is Miyagi’s own attraction to Sendai, which strains Miyagi’s sense of control.
As someone with substantial control issues I appreciate this dynamic.
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