But why would you rent a lesbian if you are into guys?
Have you heard of bisexuals?
I kinda disagree with that as it connotes that bisexual women would naturally "revert back" to heterosexual coupling once they've had their fill of lesbian experience. Irl, there have been bisexual women in long-term homosexual relationships. Some bisexual men like theater actor Alan Cumming were first in hetero marriages for a long time, then afterward sought to be with men.
This particular idea (a negative stereotype) is one of the reasons why there seems to be bad blood between lesbians and bisexual women.
I posit that rather than a bisexual, she's someone who's "bi-curious" : (adjective)
(of a heterosexual person) interested in having a sexual experience with a person of the same sex.
I think you're making a couple huge assumptions here. First, the person asking if they'd heard of bisexuals said nothing resembling what you went on about. You somehow extrapolated that meaning all on your own.
I didn't mean to make it sound like that. But irl, bisexuals wouldn't "rent" lesbians. Maybe depending on where you are but from where I am bisexual women do in fact face such negative stereotypes i.e just playing with lesbians or in some cases with other lesbians and "questioning".
Second, she's clearly not bi-curious anymore, because she's had sex with this woman numerous times. She's bisexual, and whether from her own choice or societal pressure, she decided to get married to someone of the opposite sex.
Bicurious people can sleep with whoever they want and how many times they want. There's no reason to see them as stopping from being bi-curious just cuz they seem to have preferred this over that for some periods of time. To be fair though, only the person themselves can declare where they're at in terms of their sexuality.
At best, bi-curiosity can be seen as belonging to within the sexuality spectrum, something that's not completely gray, white, or black. Just like homoflexible or heteroflexible.
https://www.liveabout.com/what-does-bi-curious-mean-1415628
After all, sexual experimentation or exploration is a lifelong experience.
Being bisexual does not eliminate preferences.
Same thing with being bi-curious.
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