This is actually a very true ideal that no one wants to look at...because we are all guilty of it.
We still don't know what the dad did...whether he truly is an indecent person or simply a man devoid of care and emotion. We need to look at him not as our preconceived notions given to us by Tomoe, but rather what we are shown. It seems like he isn't a good father in some regards, but he is in others. Tomoe can't see him for who he is, and simply shut him out from her life in response. Not healthy or appropriate.
Tomoe was being selfish. That's reality. She refused to look at the people around her seriously, the same way Mikage used to not do so either. I don't blame her for her shell-shocked response to Kujou...and quite frankly I don't think she was particularly at fault in any significant way leading up to her serious convo with Mikage. But in that moment she started thinking and seeing thinks in the aforementioned selfish manner...and it was Mikage who snapped her out of it. Mikage was in the same place, and was lucky to have such a wonderful friend in Takayanagi to see her out of it.
You can certainly want - in this case, Tomoe wants a normal family life and a normal friendship. But you must never impose your wants on reality. You can try to change reality into your wants, but to do so you must first accept reality for what it is and embrace it head on. And sad reality for Tomoe is that Kujou has a messed up perception of love, and her family was snapped and broken at the roots. She needs to accept as such, even if it requires gritted teeth and swollen eyes.
I can't say Mikage is perfect either. She tends toward coldness and needs to be more tactful in her approach toward sensitive topics at times...but in this one instance her blunt attitude is for the better, as it woke up Tomoe. And maybe in the future once Tomoe starts taking Mikage seriously, she can get her little sister to start letting a little more light leak into her life.
See, Mikage is toeing the line properly, believe it or not. She is staying aggressive to try and wake Tomoe up from her misconceived dream (looks like she was successful finally) without throwing her coins all-in and destroying her relationship completely. And in the end here all she did was verbally wake-up slap Tomoe from this dream by asking to be looked at not as a little sister. More than that, she refused to let herself be seen as a little sister.
However had Tomoe accepted immediately, she would be succumbing to someone else's desires rashly without some introspection of herself. That's what her final line of "things won't change if we keep them like this" indicates. She recognizes this, and will finally play her role as ultimate heroine in the upcoming events. She will see reality, not her wants, and tackle it head on. She will open her eyes to the world that is hers, and find her true place in it. And ultimately, I suspect she will see how all her wishes revolve around caring for Mikage. I think the incest end is immanent, as I don't see Tomoe caring for Mikage solely as a little sister anymore, but rather partially as one, and partially as a young woman as well.
Interesting to see what happens moving forward. I had started to lose hope in this, but things are picking up now that resolutions are tying up and concepts are coming full circle rather cleanly.
last edited at Oct 11, 2014 11:22PM