Sigh, I'll explain it a bit better since demisexual isn't something most people get right anyway.
Demisexual means that you are SEXUALLY attracted to someone after a bond has been formed. A "bond" isn't anything special, it's just made once you start to tell your partner anything and everything and, most importantly, are IN A RELATIONSHIP with them. Comfortable, happy, safe is best way I can describe it from my previous relationship.
It's not like masturbating to your celebrity crush, since you don't know anything about them nor vise versa. Chances are you'll never talk to them so you don't even try.
If I were to think of something sexual about my crush at this moment, say: doing naughty things in the freezer at work, I wouldn't feel anything since I like them for more aesthetic purposes. Heck, just thinking about doing things with any of my crushes or friends leaves a nasty feeling in my stomach. It's like there's an invisible wall that's stopping me from pursuing those thoughts.
This does not mean demiROMANTIC, which is the common definition of "emotionally involved," since this will breed the most common answer of: "Then isn't EVERYONE demisexual???"
I might as well add that I can still get aroused, just not from scenarios involving me. Like most of the NSFW stuff on this site; I'll get all sweaty and dry-throated any day.
last edited at Aug 24, 2015 10:09AM