One important note that the YouTuber Qaiser revealed,without saying it himself,when he made his Valentines vids.
Not a single male Operator actually expresses anything beyond being a homie.
In context of being a West Taiwan game,you're male.
The other alternative is that not only are you female,you're a raging lesbian in which every single male Operator is fully aware of and all the females who do express any desire to be with you is also a lesbian.