On the question--guy here. I have no idea why yuri isn't more popular with men (well, I guess they're afraid of "feelings" and like that, whatever). But I mean, straight guys and lesbian girls have this fundamental thing in common: We both like girls. Right? So it stands to reason that romance between girls is better than some shounen romance with some drip of a male lead getting in the way. How do more guys not see this simple obvious point?
Lovely chapter. I knew from the beginning this would be great--Takashima Hiromi's previous manga wasn't yuri, but it was so cute and sweet that it was obvious she'd be a great fit for yuri manga.
Sup PLG!
I guess it's just a matter of lack of exposure? People who know me, know that I read every demographic and genre possible, I like to think my taste is varied. But Yuri has a special place for me in the romance genre. Why?
Let's take shounen/seinen romance tropes
- Bland self-insert MC
- Ecchi Galore ( Ironically not much consensual sexy time until the very end, possibly not even showing it and just an End with 2 kids and the couple living happily ever after )
- Possibly unending harem romance
- Long series are long
- Romance might be a side thing to Slice of life or supernatural content
Shoujo Tropes :
- Dumb as brick female lead
- MISUNDERSTANDINGS ( WHOS THAT CALLING YOU !!!!!?! )
- Love triangles that drag on
- The ride never ends!
Now what I like a lot about Yuri is that
- Short and to the point ( most content is a oneshot to 3 volumes max )
- Almost always stricly about the romance, no supernatural stuff monster fighting, no school politics.
- Physical interaction is possible depending on the series
Basically Yuri can contain the fluff, the innocence, the smutty, all condensed in way less pages than usually printed het romance ( there are exceptions of course ).
TL;DR It's all about the romance ( and boobs )! What's not to like?
I have another question that's off-topic for the lesbians here. I've been thinking about this for awhile but there's no real forums I'm a part of to ask. But do you think you go faster in your relationships (like having sex faster) than a traditional straight relationship would? Since when I had my boyfriend we started dating when we were 16 and I told him to wait to have sex with me till I was 21 (he couldn't wait we broke up at 18). And when I started dating my girlfriend we got frisky a lot faster like within the first 6 months.
It's not uncommon for younger girls to avoid sex until what they consider "the right time". The only "weird" thing is that you put an arbitrary timeline ( age ) on that one instead of basing it on feelings.
Hard to gauge, statistically gay men are more promiscuous ( one gay is horny enough, now add another one! ). I am unsure about lesbians.
There's a lot of factors you have to include. Stuff like self-image, education ( religion as well ), availability, personality... The list is long.
I know it's different for every relationship and I might just be a prude. But I felt like giving to my boyfriend would make me a slut or something like listening to societies pressure but with my girlfriend I didn't worry about that at all.
That's a pretty weird thought process, my best guess is that you didn't really him? There's also the chance that as you've aged, you were more secure in your body, feelings. sexuality and didn't make a big deal out of it.
A question, do you actively tell people you're in a relationship with the girl? If you're not the stereotypical lesbian couple people might assume you're just friends and no one is going to think about it too much, zero societal pressure right there.
And I see that in yuri (well can yuri relate to real life?) that they get to bed pretty fast compared to all the wooing in het romance. So are your inhibitions less than what you would expect of a straight relationship?
Yuri has to be fast because there isn't a demand for long series, most of them are short. That's really all there is to it.
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