I'm the only one who thinks that the situation is not exactly uncommon? Perhaps is coincidence, but I can tell several people that wanting to "do the best for his/her partner" ended up "killing" what attracted them in first place without even realizing it, and later they wonder why "my partner have changed" ...
I've always thought that, in itself, doesn't have to be bad. There are many people out there who really need understanding, love and help. But amazes me that people are surprised that change happen... when that's what they search from the beginning.
It is as if, deep down, they want to be failed heroes... feel that they are "doing the right thing" but never get it to keep "the reason" why they started doing it in first place...
So, as I said ... I found the teacher the most normal person in the world.
She just wanted (and indeed has) do a good thing. Now, since she didn't think it beforehand, she will have to accept this change and learn to love their own "work" ...
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