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joined May 10, 2021

Fuck man... I really liked Kaoru

Kiarabg
joined Sep 6, 2018

Pain

I love how she plays it cool and then has her feelings when mei can’t see her. It makes her coolness feel more believable

joined Aug 21, 2017

that's rough buddy

Ewe
joined Jan 22, 2017

Not my favorite character. ;-;

joined Mar 19, 2020

i feel like its gonna end in a choose your version way and show us little snippets of the various endings all happening after she graduates, eg. ends up with maria, finishes college and joins senpai etc

last edited at Oct 31, 2025 10:27PM

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joined Oct 14, 2014

Oh my god ALL of her romances are gonna get deferred until graduation

joined Apr 2, 2023

She's losing her senses!

My two favs are out already. I'm holding on to the delusion of Maria being the real long-game survivor, but if she's not getting page time in the meanwhile is that even a win?

joined Mar 8, 2016

slow chant

Ri-ri... ... riiiri... riiiRI, RIRI, RIRI!!! RIIIRI!!!

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joined Apr 19, 2018

She's losing her senses!

God is unharem'ing her harem.

This chapter kinda made think that the progression is not just Sora ends with just someone after suddenly realizing her feelings, but also because the other romances didn't work out because "life" and plans. Kinda neat honestly.

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joined Mar 24, 2015

Whoa, I really didn't think she was going to get written out like that. Thought there'd be a plot twist keeping her in the game.

Well, Imma be delusional in my Maria-sensei corner over here

Divalshfgd_400x400
joined Jan 18, 2017

How is this harem if everyone is leaving her? T_T

Ewe
joined Jan 22, 2017

I hate "Let's wait 5-20 years until we are finally together" stories so I hope it doesn't come to this. But it seems like it will.

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joined Jan 30, 2017

God is unharem'ing her harem.

And then there were none, lesbian edition.

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joined Nov 27, 2022

Maria maria maria. What do you mean she lost a contendor "again?" Who else? If they mean Maria, they are sorely mistaken. They are both in love and are strongly awaiting their communion ♡♡♡

Ava-min
joined Dec 8, 2022

Would be kinda funny if every single member of her current harem ends up leaving her for one reason or another, and she just ends up alone after having been handed a buffet of potential partners.

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joined Nov 13, 2022

slow chant

Ri-ri... ... riiiri... riiiRI, RIRI, RIRI!!! RIIIRI!!!

silently pumping my fists enthusiastically behind you

543633_50
joined Sep 10, 2022

Maria maria maria. What do you mean she lost a contendor "again?" Who else? If they mean Maria, they are sorely mistaken. They are both in love and are strongly awaiting their communion ♡♡♡

I don't want to be the bearer or bad news...but...yeah that's two written out now--just done in nice and different ways.

slow chant
Ri-ri... ... riiiri... riiiRI, RIRI, RIRI!!! RIIIRI!!!

Silently pumping my fists enthusiastically behind you

Yeah, that's been my bet since the start. Still going as I thought it would; unlike the other girls, she's consistently had her "big moment" saved, while gradually building their closeness and I'm still assuming that's for a reason. Slow and steady often wins these races but we'll see!

last edited at Nov 1, 2025 8:05AM

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joined Nov 25, 2023

if maria and kaoru are out of the game now, i'm probably gonna drop this. they were the ones i was actually invested in, and riri is my least favorite by far, so... have fun, guys! hope you enjoy it more than i did

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joined Mar 21, 2025

Man…No! Kaoru was such a responsible and intelligently wild girl I still love her so much…and her last words for Mei is just so beautiful. The humor, the love, the energy, such an awesome person all around.

I really hope that she may return, even if it’s just video calls for advice and stuff. When the competition gets shaved off, you know that the end is near. And I just don’t know how to resolve the remaining plot lines.

But seriously. I am greatly anticipating what Tamamusi has planned for the ending. One of the reasons I hate “monogamous ending for a harem story” is because it basically means that everyone else except for the end game couple doesn’t really have a resolved ending. Because you know, since the story is a “harem”, then most of the tale will be about the MC interacting with the love interests that are…well, in love with the MC.

To make the story more fascinating, a harem wouldn’t be just a harem. If we’re telling a story then I would expect the characters to have a lot more impact on each other and have more definite relationships.

I personally think this harem story already rank among the best (not that I have read many anyway), because aside from the MC’s relationships with the love interests, the love interests themselves have relatively relatable dynamics with each other, or just valid interactions showing how they’re not so separate from each other. They have so much interactions with each other and yet none of it seems really repetitive or OOC.

Like, we have Riri, Minato, Maria, Kaoru and Karin as the fearsome five, right?
So Riri - Minato - Kaoru was partially established when they had that competition back at Maria’s beach vacation. (Although it was mostly Minato - Kaoru, but it still stands)
Riri - Kaoru was when Kaoru insightfully helped out Riri with her schoolwork and earned a ton of respect.
Riri - Karin was there during that beach episode when Karin couldn’t hold it back, and when Riri walked in on her “eating up” Mei a while back.
Minato - Kaoru was obvious, since they got to bond quite a lot during the beach episode through their love for Mei (and the initial obliviousness for it) plus a whole lot of competitiveness, and wine as well.
Minato - Karin was shown when she claimed that she would protect Mei from Karin and her actions, and of course, back when they put on that show with Mei together. Shows that they knew each other quite well.
Maria is a very intelligent psychology professor, so she already discovered all the others’ interests for Mei. Makes sense that she knows all of those girls by default.
Maria - Minato was back when they met while Mei was just there thinking that those two had something going on and the atmosphere was off.
Maria - Kaoru was way back, hinted during the beach episode that they had something sort of beef in the past.
Maria - Karin was during the beach episode and they had that one talk at the balcony about their feelings for Mei (and how Maria realized Karin is smarter than she gave credit for).

So that’s a lot of interactions. And that’s just the ones I can remember off the top of my head. Probably more but I may forgot. I just love special interactions.

(Mei’s first crush didn’t have a chance to really interact, but since the author decided to give her a lot of relevance as of now, I shall wait patiently and see what would happen.)

And among those, I find “Kaoru - Maria” the most interesting as of now. (Minato - Karin as the runner-up)
Because it seems that they are the most mature (and held a realistic attitude on life) and developed among them all, and they (unlike others) have connected way before Mei’s appearance.
And isn’t it just so coincidental that those two mature girls just had that serious talk during the fireworks before both of them automatically (and possibly definitely) dropped out of the competition for Mei until further notice? (Even after Kaoru explicitly said to Minato that she’s not going to give up without a fight, and Maria desperately wanted Mei to make a move on her before the vacation.)

This is just a wild theory, but…could it be that Maria held that vacation to see who would be the best for Mei and confronted Kaoru (with whom she’s the closest) and discussed what’s the best, and agreed that it’s for the best that if all of them wanted her so bad (not to mention Maria realized Karin’s capabilities while Kaoru realized Minato’s determination), and they had too many obstacles keeping them from love compared with the rest, it’d be better if they just burn the bridge for Mei after this trip?

But I dunno, I still wanted a harem ending and for everyone to love Mei (and have sesbian lex with her) but those mature responsibilities are getting in the way dang it!

Even if it stretches across Mei’s college years, I want everyone to love and have her!

Tron-legacy
joined Dec 11, 2017

I mean, let's be real honest. Given the way she turns on a dime to be completely smitten over whatever girl is immediately in front of her, Soraike is, like...trash? Like, she's amusing and likable, but her affections clearly flip on a dime and I personally don't feel like it's very likely that if she managed to snag an official girlfriend, she wouldn't just immediately cheat on them with the next person that was even a little aggressive. And even if I'm wrong about that, she's DEFINITELY not currently capable of picking somebody from the lineup right now. Honestly I don't see her slowing down and cooling off until somebody gets hurt. Probably Riri.

She is the protagonist of a story, so probably she has some growth in front of her, but for the moment, she's just an unrestrained ball of hormones ready to unleash on anybody that seems remotely receptive.

543633_50
joined Sep 10, 2022

And even if I'm wrong about that, she's DEFINITELY not currently capable of picking somebody from the lineup right now. Honestly I don't see her slowing down and cooling off until somebody gets hurt. Probably Riri.

I agree, but once she has her moment with Riri, we'll really learn about where this could go. I want to understand what that results in first. I'm assuming there's a reason for delaying it so long, while everyone else is doing nonsense like you mentioned; they've developed more slowly. Seems like anticipation is being built up, but not sure yet to what end. Just guesses until that gets cleared up.

last edited at Nov 1, 2025 1:01PM

Ykn1
joined Dec 20, 2018

So everyone leaves until she'll go back to Chiharu?

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joined Feb 3, 2021

one last sniff for the road

joined Dec 28, 2024

Ugh, honestly I kinda hate this move from the author.

Personaly the reason why I love harems (where most seems to hate them) is because I'm a nerd for good character interactions. Though there was several flags already that this wasn't this type of story, I love when the characters are given the space to live and breath and be their own person outside of the MC, and I think the Karin-Riri flirting, Maria-Kaoru tension, or Minato-Kaoru bonding moments were good example of this and kinda made me hopeful for the rest of the story (it was literally in my top 5 running yuri series until now lol).

But this to me proves the author barely thought about their own characters past the "5 senses" schtick and don't plan on doing so, which is disappointing to say the least. Senpai was soo immemorable, it's like she was there and then kinda just left.

Anyway all this to say, if you genuinely don't know how to write side-characters outside of their relationship to the MC and don't intend on milking the hell out of every potential ship, personality and dialogue in your harem story, then you're making poor use of a harem imo !

last edited at Nov 1, 2025 10:14PM

Leaping%20cow
joined Sep 27, 2017

Ugh, honestly I kinda hate this move from the author.

Personaly the reason why I love harems (where most seems to hate them) is because I'm a nerd for good character interactions. Though there was several flags already that this wasn't this type of story, I love when the characters are given the space to live and breath and be their own person outside of the MC, and I think the Karin-Riri flirting, Maria-Kaoru tension, or Minato-Kaoru bonding moments were good example of this and kinda made me hopeful for the rest of the story (it was literally in my top 5 running yuri series until now lol).

But this to me proves the author barely thought about their own characters past the "5 senses" schtick and don't plan on doing so, which is disappointing to say the least. Senpai was soo immemorable, it's like she was there and then kinda just left.

Anyway all this to say, if you genuinely don't know how to write side-characters outside of their relationship to the MC and don't intend on milking the hell out of every potential ship, personality and dialogue in your harem story, then you're making poor use of a harem imo !

Unfortunately harems in general don't actually commit to being a harem. I think this is a feeling a good amount of people have had for awhile and a growing sentiment over the years. I somewhat recently saw a Reddit post venting about this as well. I wish we had a lesbian harem series that had the same kind of energy as 100 girlfriends, which feels like someone that got fed up with harems not committing so the creator went with the most absurd idea possible. Where the series fully commits to it being a harem, and has various characters that pair off into pairs and groups to bond with each other. I wish this manga was along those lines, where the harem forms close bonds together and they're all dating the MC at the same time.

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