Just for the record: That mother's pretty heartless...
Maybe it is, but, in my experience, this works great for making your child study hard. My parents were strict like this and I think it was for better.
Being strict to make sure you don't slack off and pay attention to prove yourself is one thing. Instilling a perfection complex that tells you you're a failure if you aren't the best is another.
It's striving for perfection that makes people great, not actually achieving it.
You'd be surprised how common a practice it is to try and instill a perfection complex in children, especially in Eastern cultures. Not that I'm saying all Asians (Japanese specifically) stick to this tradition, but when brought up traditionally, that's what parents are doing and that's what they have been doing for centuries. They instill the complex in hopes their child will be useful, to not only them in the future, but to society. Having a perfectionist complex (in the parent's eyes) means they will do anything it takes to be perfect. Failure can't be seen as an option otherwise they'll find a way out of working hard: "oh I only got 5 marks lower than that guy, I'll be fine," he says, but why would any respectable company hire the guy, if that other guy got a perfect score? How would that reflect on the person and his family? It's all about status in the fast paced world now.
I neither condone the action, or agree with it, but it's culture and tradition; it's a parenting style that has been around for a long time. It's pretty hazardous and, statistically, the constant strive for perfection has lead Japan to have the highest suicide rate, but let's be realistic: if you don't like the way it's done, you're going to have to try and break down hundreds of year old tradition to make them reconsider the parenting styles.
On a happier note: this manga is very interesting to say the least. I love how Yurine (is suddenly reminded of Karas) is baiting Ayaka to work harder to beat her. I kinda like the idea of the manga too: 'the genius wants to feel normal by having someone else beat her score' feels a bit cliche, but I hope the more Ayaka gets closer, the more Yurine likes her and when Ayaka finally beats her, everyone will gets a happy ending. Yay for hate/angry/love, that's always a treat. (((o(゚▽゚)o)))
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