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my brother was in love with my cousin, who gave a shit for him, but nobody in the family was bothered, he also had a big crush in my aunt who was almost the same age as him, nobody gaves a f*ck too, but neither of them returned the feelling (poor thing, his life has so many unrequited love LOL)
I remember too that 2 cousins in summer vacation in my house had a thing and they hooked up, no one bated an eyes too
and the last between my 15 and 18 years I had a crush in one cousin mine (actually 2, but one was very fast and she was the same as my brother LOL), but she's straight (which I doubt her to be 100%) and married. In this case I was too young to even try something if she was single, besides straight,
I said this much nonsense just to add example to Brazil don't giving too much importance to this kind of relationship generally speaking, cause of course a few bad example are far from being representative of 200 mi of people
sorry bad english, but my laziness prevented me of being in a normal position to type
but a direct relative like parents and siblings is something I'd never do, but would not judge too, with every sides consensus, I think ALMOST everything is allowed
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Akira is the best character in this story o_o
It's not like I didn't know your arguments before, Random. Of course, since they are the doxa. If you're interested following this discussion (and I hope you do and are not certain to hold the truth >_>), contact me at 00120260 at gmail dot com.
Just saying this:
And your aesthetic response has any relevance whatsoever to other people's personal lives exactly why? [...] "Mind your own f*cking business." (Salty granny.)
Yeah, at home. That's why you actually can't do EVERYTHING legal at home, in public. I don't think it's so abnormal to care about what becomes public life (??).
I'm honestly at a loss of word seeing that people may root for incest in fiction, but in fiction only. mean, I just don't understand the, hum, psychological mechanism :-? I love bloody horror film, but it's not "pretty" even in fiction.
In fiction the audience is typically privy to the whole process of the affection emerging, such as here, and can duly draw informed conclusions of the people involved and their motivations. IRL we do not have that luxury and would normally know next to nothing about the people involved and must default to (generally negative) assumptions - plus let's be honest here, people are generally rather more lenient and flexible about people they know than of complete strangers.
There's also the uncomfortable detail that IRL such parent-child relations in particular are often anything but wholesome and healthy and instead rather tend to fall into the category of abusive...
Also recall that most people can readily compartementalize fiction and reality. It's the same deal as with charismatic but deeply flawed characters who make for a fascinating story but whose likes you'd most likely avoid like the Plague IRL because they're plain bad news. Well-written "villain protagonists" like the eponymous narcissistic sociopath in the classic opera Don Giovanni are a good example.
Wow I didn't know that incest was legal in so many countries! Glad to know that there are so few cases of it despite that.
Incest is not a threath for society at all, so aside from non-consensual situations, the only argument against it is moral.
And sorry, but saying "it's okay because it's a manga, but in real life is gross" sound like the thing homophobic people say about yuri mangas.
You didn't get my point, did you? What I was talking about in my first post and am afraid of happening if things like this are Encouraged(important word here) is that it will destroy ones family relations and with it the entire family system - the very base of human society. There is no concept of Family in an incest society imo. For daughters, Fathers will be like any other male of the society they can bang and vice versa. The same applies to Mother/son and brother/sister relations. Hence the destruction of [our] society if incest is made acceptable through works like this.
@UranusAndNeptune
If you can't tolerate others opinion and don't have the capacity to converse without whining and getting personal (which you proved in your above post), it puts a serious question mark on your civility/maturity. I am a free person and it is my right (like any of you) to have my own opinion and express it freely. You can disagree with me all you want but getting personal, calling me a child and telling me what to read and what to not? What kind of nonsense is this? Who exactly is being childish here? Had heard maturity does not always come with age. I guess you proved that today.
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Wow I didn't know that incest was legal in so many countries! Glad to know that there are so few cases of it despite that.
Incest is not a threath for society at all, so aside from non-consensual situations, the only argument against it is moral.
And sorry, but saying "it's okay because it's a manga, but in real life is gross" sound like the thing homophobic people say about yuri mangas.
You didn't get my point, did you? What I was talking about in my first post and am afraid of happening if things like this are Encouraged(important word here) is that it will destroy ones family relations and with it the entire family system - the very base of human society. There is no concept of Family in an incest society imo. For daughters, Fathers will be like any other male of the society they can bang and vice versa. The same applies to Mother/son and brother/sister relations. Hence the destruction of [our] society if incest is made acceptable through works like this.
Idk, my sis and i still have a sisterly relationship despite being together. Our basic everyday interaction is not much different from when we grew up, were just a bit more flirty than before. I can see how it would effect Parent/Child relationships, but i can speak from experience that it isnt the case with us at least.
You didn't get my point, did you? What I was talking about in my first post and am afraid of happening if things like this are Encouraged(important word here) is that it will destroy ones family relations and with it the entire family system - the very base of human society. There is no concept of Family in an incest society imo. For daughters, Fathers will be like any other male of the society they can bang and vice versa. The same applies to Mother/son and brother/sister relations. Hence the destruction of [our] society if incest is made acceptable through works like this.
Lmao, this is just... lol! First of all, being into incest fiction or even being tolerant and non-judgemental of incest in real life does not amount to encouragement. There is a difference between accepting something without judgement, and actually encouraging it. No one is saying "woah, incest is awesome, do it, everyone".
Secondly, even if people were encouraging incest here (which they are not), it would not make any difference, lmfao! There are some really powerful psychological mechanisms (like the Westermarck effect) that prevent incestual feelings for the vast majority of people in everyday life. You can not fucking encourage people to do incest, are you even being serious here??
Thirdly, I already brought this up, but you apparently missed it. Your whole argument is the same bullshit that was peddled against gay marriage. "Oh noes, if we legalise it, we shall have an epidemic of gay marriages, traditional family will be forever ruined." Never mind that gay people are perfectly capable of having normal families, but the traditional (het) family remained safe and secure, because guess what! Legalising gay marriage did not "encourage" people to be gay, it just allowed those who already are to acquire the same legal status with their partners as heterosexual couples.
Fourthly, are you serious (again)?? I am actually asking this, because you sound... not quite rational, shall we say. Destruction of society????? Yes, a website dedicated to a niche genre (yuri) hosting a work that is essentially a niche within a niche (yuri incest) will pave the way towards utter destruction of our society, what are you, 10 years old??
And lastly, if incest is not your thing, then may I suggest not reading works such as this one? It is clearly tagged, you have no excuse being here, other than wanting to peddle how wrong this is and how we should not be receiving it as positively as we are. Seriously, piss off.
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Nez Note
Okay folks, it's time to wrap up the discussion of incest in the real world, at least until such time as the author of the manga chooses to include those issues in the story itself. This has been interesting at times, and I've been happy to give people a chance to discuss, but we've been around and around and around the same ground far too many times and the time has come to let it go. We're 26 pages in, that's more than enough room for everyone to have their say multiple times.
From here on in, please stick to discussing the story and the issues brought up by the author directly.
I expect a few people will still post replies without looking at this post, and I ask everyone else to not respond. If people are persistent I'll consider trimming or removing posts as appropriate, but I'd really rather not do that.
Nez Note
Okay folks, it's time to wrap up the discussion of incest in the real world, at least until such time as the author of the manga chooses to include those issues in the story itself. This has been interesting at times, and I've been happy to give people a chance to discuss, but we've been around and around and around the same ground far too many times and the time has come to let it go. We're 26 pages in, that's more than enough room for everyone to have their say multiple times.
From here on in, please stick to discussing the story and the issues brought up by the author directly.
I expect a few people will still post replies without looking at this post, and I ask everyone else to not respond. If people are persistent I'll consider trimming or removing posts as appropriate, but I'd really rather not do that.
So i have a question then, just to be safe. I think the wording allows it, but i like to always make absolutely sure with mod posts. ^ ^
People have asked me to share my personal perspective on things that are brought up in the manga when it is something that relates to my situation. So if something happens in a new chapter that fits the bill, am i allowed to do that, or should i stay quiet?
For daughters, Fathers will be like any other male of the society they can bang and vice versa. The same applies to Mother/son and brother/sister relations.
Assuming the second incest is legal, everyone will be doing it. You are forgetting that most people will still see their family as, well, family. There is a reason most people feel no attraction to their parents or siblings and that is because they are raised by them/together with them and don't even perceive them as potential sexual partner. You just assumes that legalization of it, will somehow change the perception people themselves develop over their life. The only realistic scenario for sibling falling for their other sibling/parent is when they were separated and are not aware they are related. Because without experience of growing together and/or knowledge of their bloodline, they will treat each other as potential partner. Sure you could argue there are some other plausible scenarios (mostly shown in anime/manga) like if 1 sibling is really nice to other sibling, then they can develop a crush on them, but it rarely goes beyond that and even if, other sibling would need to reciprocate as well, which make this scenario even more unlikely to occur. And let's ignore the fact that for both mother and daughter to turn out to be lesbians/bi and fall for each other is like like winning a jackpot. So yea, hard to imagine it suddenly happening world wide just because we changed some laws.
For everything else. What UranusAndNeptuneAreJustCousins said.
EDIT/ Well shit, I guess it is my luck to be late to discussions.
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People have asked me to share my personal perspective on things that are brought up in the manga when it is something that relates to my situation. So if something happens in a new chapter that fits the bill, am i allowed to do that, or should i stay quiet?
While your perspective is certainly interesting and your experience is valid, I think the basics we've covered here already are enough. If you're willing to discuss it in another venue and provide a link, or if you're on the Dynasty Discord server, that would be absolutely fine.
I'm cleaning this up because again, it's not about the story, it's about a specific user. Not really the venue for that.
If we're talking about the story now... Am I the only one waiting for the characters introduced early on to actually become relevant to the plot? With the slow release of chapters, I can barely remember anyone except Asuka, Ayako, and Akira without re-reading the whole thing. Jun, especially, seemed like he would be important, but I think he's only come up in like three chapters, and only physically appeared in one.
Autumn, post that one more time and you get a ban.
If we're talking about the story now... Am I the only one waiting for the characters introduced early on to actually become relevant to the plot? With the slow release of chapters, I can barely remember anyone except Asuka, Ayako, and Akira without re-reading the whole thing. Jun, especially, seemed like he would be important, but I think he's only come up in like three chapters, and only physically appeared in one.
Jun will be pretty prominent in the next chapter.
If we're talking about the story now... Am I the only one waiting for the characters introduced early on to actually become relevant to the plot? With the slow release of chapters, I can barely remember anyone except Asuka, Ayako, and Akira without re-reading the whole thing. Jun, especially, seemed like he would be important, but I think he's only come up in like three chapters, and only physically appeared in one.
Jun will be pretty prominent in the next chapter.
Should I look forward to that, or dread it?
Should I look forward to that, or dread it?
I'll leave that to your imagination ;)
Yay! I like this manga. I always want to say thank you for the translator & editor.
There was a “why no het” thread elsewhere on this forum that quickly went sour, but thinking about the return of Jun to this one clarified for me why het (or more precisely, straight guys as potential love interests) in yuri usually don’t work for me. It’s nothing about “purity” or thinking boys are stinky (though sometimes in real life male grooming and hygiene indeed do not get the attention they deserve); it’s that they exist only to cause trouble—if it’s yuri, boys (faithful yuri allies excepted ) are almost inevitably doomed to be one-dimensional plot-driven sh*t-stirrers.
In this case, Jun:
* has a thing for Asuka
* knows about (although perhaps not in detail) and strongly disapproves of Asuka’s feelings for her mother
So barring a sudden conversion to incestual yurism, what can Jun do except be annoying with his feelings for MC, spill secrets, and make everyone feel bad?
I’m not saying the character (or any straight male in yuri) can’t be used effectively and in an interesting way, just that past experience suggests that the odds are against it. I’m hoping to be proven wrong.
(I’m also hoping that responses, if any, stay strictly on yuri storytelling in general and this story in particular. Anything else and I’ll just apologize and delete this.)
There was a “why no het” thread elsewhere on this forum that quickly went sour, but thinking about the return of Jun to this one clarified for me why het (or more precisely, straight guys as potential love interests) in yuri usually don’t work for me. It’s nothing about “purity” or thinking boys are stinky (though sometimes in real life male grooming and hygiene indeed do not get the attention they deserve); it’s that they exist only to cause trouble—if it’s yuri, boys (faithful yuri allies excepted ) are almost inevitably doomed to be one-dimensional plot-driven sh*t-stirrers.
In this case, Jun:
* has a thing for Asuka
* knows about (although perhaps not in detail) and strongly disapproves of Asuka’s feelings for her motherSo barring a sudden conversion to incestual yurism, what can Jun do except be annoying with his feelings for MC, spill secrets, and make everyone feel bad?
I’m not saying the character (or any straight male in yuri) can’t be used effectively and in an interesting way, just that past experience suggests that the odds are against it. I’m hoping to be proven wrong.
(I’m also hoping that responses, if any, stay strictly on yuri storytelling in general and this story in particular. Anything else and I’ll just apologize and delete this.)
For me, it isn't even just males in yuri. I feel exactly this way about love rivals in general, which is why love triangles are so hit-or-miss in my experience. Far too often, they only serve to force development of the main couple and don't stand on their own as characters.
In this specific instance, I'm also bothered by the character's nature as a Chekhov's gun; it was obvious he was going to come up again, and his lack of any real importance up 'til now just makes me doubt that he'll be incorporated organically into the plot. Of course, I'm hoping to be proven wrong.
Based on the future chapters so far this series isn't one you can so easily predict based on past examples
Based on the future chapters so far this series isn't one you can so easily predict based on past examples
Delighted to hear that. (Things that are done well . . . are good.)
Based on the future chapters so far this series isn't one you can so easily predict based on past examples
I am both very intruiged and very afraid. ^^
The only thing im hoping for at the moment is a happy ending for the two.