Yeah me too, I also think Seju x Sungji would work better than Sumin x Nami. Are the really flexible? o_o I mean I can understand being a bit flexible, like for example Sumin letting Sungji take the lead for a while but completely changing and being with someone like Nami seems like waaay too much of a change. How flexible can someone be? Also if you have a type doesn't that automatically mean that you date same types of people and always assume the same role that compliments theirs? Though I guess a lot of people don't have a type. I don't even understand how someone can't have a type so I doubt I'll ever be able to understand any of this >.>
Lol clear roles and types are rampant in manga and other media, but even if you have a type that starts an initial attraction, that doesn't mean everything's going to play out the way you expect. I don't look back at previous relationships and think wow those played out exactly the same way, even if there are things that I liked about them that were very similar.
A lot of stories link a character's personality outside of the bedroom with their sexual preferences. Sumin's the protector, boss, "teacher", that drives a fancy car, holds the door for Sungji and keeps her from walking into puddles -- so she's the top. Sungji's doe-eyed, sentimental, likes stuffed animals and sweet things -- so she's the bottom. (Seju has pink hair - bottom! :P) I'm sure there are plenty of real-life examples that play out the same way, but there are just as many that contradict those stereotypes. At the price of providing way too many personal details, most of my friends have the misconception that I'm a top/dom/seme/big-spoon/you-get-the-point, just from the way I carry myself. This provides plenty of giggles to the women I've dated who know I prefer (but don't insist on) being a slutty slutty bottom a la Seju chapter 4.
Anywayyyy, so far they've had sex twice and we haven't seen Sungji so much as wiggle a finger in the direction of Sumin's crotch, which I'm not mad at, it's just unrealistic. If you have time to lie down in a bed, there's usually "give and take" for both parties, virgin/inexperienced or not.
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