Irl, being lesbian or gay in Asia isn't gonna end well for you. The pressure from family, society and friend can crush you deeply. They will gossip, spread rumor, treat you different, bullying you mentally and physically. Your family? They will try to "change" you, maybe set you to meet opposite sex partner, even worst, thinking you have "mental" problem and take you to doctor (they even have "school" for this with problematic kid like game addiction). The last resort can be abadon you once you are 18 to avoid you tainted the family name. Same sex marriage isnt legal so you don't have any protection right with your partner. Heck, even in Western, the discrimination still there. Not everyone are like that, but majority are, and risking you whole life like that isnt sth you dare to. We know this is GL so Tong Tong will likes her also, but in real life, the chance other girl is les isn't high. The ghosting and jealousy tactic are shit, but you can't forget she is a teenager who deeply insecure in hetero environment that had past trauma with coming out.
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