^ true, and while this is besides the point arguably a lot of nsfw yaoi is drawn/written as if the asshole was the vagina lol. but as always with the internet... if you look it will be there... probably some omegaverse stuff that's close to it
gay comics (bara-geicomi, western) also don’t show lube, condoms or anything tbh. yaoi in fact has more of that, even enemas.