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Yatsude_!
joined Jan 13, 2019

I totally get the annoying medical industry, I haven't gotten top surgery yet but getting on testosterone had a similar back and forth of getting lots of questions and being exhausted by having to explain my answers...go Kazuki!!

4fe5eecd-bb71-4108-8d32-020d4e723c02
joined Oct 3, 2018

So deeply relatable... The sooner you realize that tremendously few professionals have knowledge relevant to your treatment the better, and this step can be particularly difficult for avoidant or non-confrontational people.

Having to give repeated crash course educations, talk down conflations of personal moral discomfort with professional concern, and ultimately sort of construct an entire care plan for yourself from disparate resources really can drain you pretty quickly.

last edited at Dec 7, 2024 5:48PM

D5aad09a-7f7c-4c16-aad1-2b0b94587149
joined Nov 13, 2022

This is so cool to read about. I love the matter of fact style too :)

butches-and-chicken
Butch%20for%20butch
joined Jun 12, 2023

Me too, Kazuki, my veins are hard to find...
And it's always good to distract yourself with positive things before a surgery

last edited at Dec 15, 2024 4:15PM

Eterna%20rinebow%20small
joined Oct 20, 2017

I've been complimented before for my arm vein being easy to find; must be rough to have stealthy veins like that. But yeah, this is a pretty interesting read.

Sdm%20ladies%20cheering
joined Apr 10, 2023

While I don't share the specific problem the general thing in chapter 3 of doctors basically treating you like an idiot who needs to super justify every little thing and every curiosity the doctor has regardless of relevance to convince them to do their jobs is super relatable. I guess doctors being assholes like that is more universal than I would have liked to think. :(
At least when Kazuki went into the OR they didn't come face to face with a dozen medical students staring at their exposed body. One horrific invasion I experienced last time I needed a surgery that they thankfully didn't. Wonder if it's less common in other countries, or if they might even do the sane thing and require patient consent before letting in a bunch of kids to be an audience in your most vulnerable moments
(And that's before we get to the "audience participation" that is very common in America but I can't talk about that without feeling sick)

last edited at Dec 16, 2024 1:50PM

butches-and-chicken
Butch%20for%20butch
joined Jun 12, 2023

I almost fell of my chair when I saw the surgery price. It's good that everything's alright

Cerberus_pikomarie-supersmall
joined Feb 27, 2019

huh that wasn't as expensive as i expected

7a067e9e6fb1c92210174e64e9f1e23d
joined Jun 19, 2013

While I don't share the specific problem the general thing in chapter 3 of doctors basically treating you like an idiot who needs to super justify every little thing and every curiosity the doctor has regardless of relevance to convince them to do their jobs is super relatable. I guess doctors being assholes like that is more universal than I would have liked to think. :(
At least when Kazuki went into the OR they didn't come face to face with a dozen medical students staring at their exposed body. One horrific invasion I experienced last time I needed a surgery that they thankfully didn't. Wonder if it's less common in other countries, or if they might even do the sane thing and require patient consent before letting in a bunch of kids to be an audience in your most vulnerable moments
(And that's before we get to the "audience participation" that is very common in America but I can't talk about that without feeling sick)

That's really fucked up, I'm in the US too and it's a total violation of medical ethics. Something like this would be beyond the pale at my local big training hospital: any time I've gone there, they've always explicitly asked for consent when bringing in a medical student or getting a recording for training students during my appointment. Even for basic treatment, I've needed to sign a form that has detailed stuff like "we are a teaching hospital and conduct research on excess patient samples, you have the right refuse to consent to this and still get treatment" and "you have the right to ask for the names and positions of all people involved in your care", and I assume a surgical form would be even more involved about whether students may possibly assist.

The American Medical Association explicitly says that "all physicians share an obligation to ensure that patients are aware that medical students may participate in their care and have the opportunity to decline care from students" AMA Code of Medical Ethics - Medical Student Involvement in Patient Care. You are allowed to ask and confirm whether students are involved in your care in any capacity, and if any doctor ever gives you shit for it you can whip this page out. And if you ever get lookers-on again, you can whip this one out, because that's also an ethics violation.

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