Awh, the set up would've been okay if Arisa was also in the know (assuming she isn't). Also, compromises should be made in a relationship; one can't always be the top.
Yeah, um. Not quite following her logic, here. "No, you can't top. Completely impossible. Mm? Sleep with my sister on the side? Sure! Go for it! I'm still on top, though." Like... Really? These are your priorities? Whatever, girl.