so like, these comments are fun. lol
Legit some people get off watching others get off. And that's definitely not the same as being a pillow princess. I know people who just love getting their partner off and it's not like they're unhappy about not getting the same treatment. Their treatment was watching their love interest or sex partner climax.
That being said
My switch life isn't about novelty or sharing. It's just my moods. If anything, it's just me giving into selfish desires which change depending on the day. Looking for a partner who can help mirror those moods can be difficult, but hopefully it'll be worth it in the end.