I honestly just want to see the moment Yuu realized she was in love with Touko, like the moment it fudging hit her or did it happen already and i somehow skipped it? somebody let me know please.
As far as Yuu realizing her feelings, there’s no one big moment but the accumulation of lots of little ones. In some ways that’s most of the entire series—chatty phone calls, little bits of skinship, her bedroom planetarium, the cellphone strap, etc.
As far as Yuu articulating her feelings to herself, the big moment was here:
https://dynasty-scans.com/chapters/bloom_into_you_ch22#31
This is the counterpoint to Touko’s statement: “How could I be in love with someone who loves what I hate?” (Which as several people have pointed out, makes no actual sense—my partner loves coffee ice cream, which is one of the few flavors I can’t stand, but who the f*ck cares?—but that’s typical low self-esteem “stinking thinking.”)
That technique of having the character’s voice balloon block out part of the same character’s thought caption box, indicating that Yuu is still (at that point) not ready to fully admit her feelings to herself, is one that I’ve never seen before, and I wonder if there are other examples.
Anyway, the page in the link is one reason people are popping bottles of champagne over this chapter—Yuu being straightforward to herself about her feelings is a long-awaited development.