Now about the story, even if Seju haters use only facts, we can't forget that the story is from Sumin point of view, we barely know anything about Seju, most of the things we have is speculation.
About Seju feeling guilty, I don't remember very well but if I'm not mistaken she does feel guilty for the cheating, but that was 10 years ago so it doesn't matter that much anymore, I do agree that she probably doesn't feel guilty for telling the redhead fiance about what she was doing, now for sleeping with Nami there's nothing for her to feel guilty about, they're both two single and adults, their reasons are questionable, but what they're doing is not wrong, also, Seju haters talk about her not feeling guilty for those 3 things, but they completely ignore that even if she doesn't feel guity for any of them, Sumin hurt Seju on purpose for the last 10 years and never felt guilty for that either, one is not better than the other.
Now about Seju doing something wrong or not, yeah I don't think she did anything wrong, her reason for telling the redhead husband about the cheating and why she's going sleep with Nami might be wrong depending on how you see things, but it's very arguable if doing those things are wrong, but there's a catch in that, I say the same for Sumin, I don't think she did anything that is really is wrong and we can argue if they are or not, what I see is two characters with lots of baggage doing questionable or shitty choices, but I don't see that as they're doing bad or wrong things, maybe I was not clear, but I don't believe in black and white morality/thinking, I believe that some actions can be both good and bad at the same time or neither, so yeah, I don't think they did anything bad or wrong, but that doesn't mean I think what they did can automatically be considered good or right, but I guess it's imposible for Seju haters to understand that since for them it's all black and white, Seju = evil and Sumin = good, which is stupid since that's not how the story is.
Now about idealizing Seju, sorry but at least I never did that, all I'm doing is trying to see both characters in a neutral way, maybe I'm being too generous and seeing than as too good, I won't deny that, but one is definitely not bad than the other, why one need to be good and the other bad? That's nonsense, the biggest problem when they say that is that it's completely hypocritical, from the start they outright demonized Seju and you can see that in old posts on this very thread, maybe we're wrong, true, but that doesn't make them right either.
On my opinion there's two ways to see the story, either you see both Seju and Sumin as two people who did bad and wrong choices, or see them as two damaged humans with lots of baggage and problems who do questinable choices because they can't let go of the past, I don't really mind that Seju haters don't like her, I understand their arguments, my problem with them is that most think Seju is evil while Sumin is a saint who never did anything wrong even though the story made very clear that neither is better than the other, cause it's very easy to see Seju as evil and manipulative when you outright ignore Sumin side of the story and try to make mental gymnastics to justify anything she does while there's no justification for what Seju does.
About discussions in other places, I noticed that most places doesn't have real discussions, instead it's a war between people divided between pairings or about those who hate a character against those who like the character.
halmoni
Well, I never talked shit about you, I might not agree with you, but I never tried to offend you in any way, if you did felt offended sorry then, cause it was not my intention, making a discussion on your tumblr is not fair because that is your domain, so it need to be in a neutral place like Dynasty.
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