it really makes me wonder just how many lesbians and bisexuals in Japan think that they're straight, since this seems to be a very common trope in their fiction at least
No idea, but i know a lot of lesbians and bi outside of Japan think they're straight well into their adult years as well.
Even putting aside social norms, a lot of people just don't question that about themselves until some big reveal fall down on them sometimes in the form of they happen to fall in love with someone.
Funny enough just last month i was in conversation with some acquaintances, one woman was asked when did she realize she was bi. She answered basically 2 years ago when she fell for the girl who she is currently dating. She was 31 when that happened.
reminded me a bit of Sakuma.
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