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I don’t want to be disrespectful but as a med student, there are some strange things in this that are bothering me with this.

last edited at Jan 27, 2019 10:32AM

Breizh posted:

I don’t want to be disrespectful but as a med student, there are some strange things in this that are bothering me with this.

Like?

I don’t want to be disrespectful but as a med student, there are some strange things in this that are bothering me with this.

I read this and decided to go snooping and I thought the medications were a little off but explainable considering the circumstances.

Honestly I can't find anything that actually makes me think this is fake in anyway.

I don’t want to be disrespectful but as a med student, there are some strange things in this that are bothering me with this.

I read this and decided to go snooping and I thought the medications were a little off but explainable considering the circumstances.

Honestly I can't find anything that actually makes me think this is fake in anyway.

Not the first one to comment that so I don't find it offensive or disrespectful anymore. I often wonder if it's my doctor's approach to it or if it's my country and what we have available. I never know. I really never understand but then again after 10 years of going to all kinds of doctor I do know for a fact more often doctors including med students often really judge each other on their approach to an illness. Not necessarily a bad thing in all sense but as a patient it makes me scared and harder to trust in my doctors when I read such comments. Makes me develop this line of thinking where I know I need medical attention but don't know if I can trust doctors after all.

Another thing I forgot to say. I also know a lot of this stuff is strange, considering I don't like not knowing and study illnesses and medications so I also question a lot of things that have been happening in my life for so long. Everything I have been told I might be, have had, have, etc is confusing to me as well. No one ever gives me a good answer. Honestly speaking where can I go and how can I go there to get the best explanation possible? I would love for that answer, but I have given up on getting it. I can only do and get what is available for me.

last edited at Jan 28, 2019 10:18PM

You're out of line here, Breizh. Not only is it rude to begin with, but as a med student it's questionably ethical for you to be publicly diagnosing someone and critiquing their meds over the internet. It really isn't your place to be doubting her word here, particularly given you're still just a student at this point.

To say nothing of the fact that none of that alters your interaction with the artist doing the commissions in any way.

Maybe it got something to do with the things you eat.

Maybe it got something to do with the things you eat.

I actually have a very strict diet of no fats, acid, condiments or anything spicy. For 5 months or so and I still relapsed. I also don't drink or been ever into alcohol or smoke or drugs.

Why is the moderator being so rude, the guy was just hesitant.

Why is the moderator being so rude, the guy was just hesitant.

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"an terrible" grammar

Why is the moderator being so rude, the guy was just hesitant.

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Yep, shouting someone down for stating their opinion is a bit overkill.

Why is the moderator being so rude, the guy was just hesitant.

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Yep, shouting someone down for stating their opinion is a bit overkill.

I actually read Nezchan's comment first then read Breizh's comment. I'm surprised at the reaction.
Nezchan, your comment was very unnecessary and frankly rude/mean.

last edited at Feb 6, 2019 2:35PM

Why is the moderator being so rude, the guy was just hesitant.

True

Yep, shouting someone down for stating their opinion is a bit overkill.

I actually read Nezchan's comment first then read Breizh's comment. I'm surprised at the reaction.
Nezchan, your comment was very unnecessary and frankly rude/mean.

It came across as somewhat abrupt, yes, but I'm sure Nezchan is just worried.

Why is the moderator being so rude, the guy was just hesitant.

True

Yep, shouting someone down for stating their opinion is a bit overkill.

I actually read Nezchan's comment first then read Breizh's comment. I'm surprised at the reaction.
Nezchan, your comment was very unnecessary and frankly rude/mean.

It came across as somewhat abrupt, yes, but I'm sure Nezchan is just worried.

I wonder if there are different interpretations of what Breizh is saying? I first read it as them saying they thought the illness was made up/hypochondria/whatever, which would be out of line for a med student to say of someone they had not examined. But it sounds like other people got the impression that they were just concerned about the mix of medications which may not be helpful together or for that purpose, which is fair.

Embersember posted:

Why is the moderator being so rude, the guy was just hesitant.

True

Yep, shouting someone down for stating their opinion is a bit overkill.

I actually read Nezchan's comment first then read Breizh's comment. I'm surprised at the reaction.
Nezchan, your comment was very unnecessary and frankly rude/mean.

It came across as somewhat abrupt, yes, but I'm sure Nezchan is just worried.

I wonder if there are different interpretations of what Breizh is saying? I first read it as them saying they thought the illness was made up/hypochondria/whatever, which would be out of line for a med student to say of someone they had not examined. But it sounds like other people got the impression that they were just concerned about the mix of medications which may not be helpful together or for that purpose, which is fair.

I understood "there are some strange things in this that are bothering me with this." as simply meaning, they think some meds etc. are weird/unnecessary, so I wanted them to elaborated on that.

Embersember posted:

Why is the moderator being so rude, the guy was just hesitant.

True

Yep, shouting someone down for stating their opinion is a bit overkill.

I actually read Nezchan's comment first then read Breizh's comment. I'm surprised at the reaction.
Nezchan, your comment was very unnecessary and frankly rude/mean.

It came across as somewhat abrupt, yes, but I'm sure Nezchan is just worried.

I wonder if there are different interpretations of what Breizh is saying? I first read it as them saying they thought the illness was made up/hypochondria/whatever, which would be out of line for a med student to say of someone they had not examined. But it sounds like other people got the impression that they were just concerned about the mix of medications which may not be helpful together or for that purpose, which is fair.

I understood "there are some strange things in this that are bothering me with this." as simply meaning, they think some meds etc. are weird/unnecessary, so I wanted them to elaborated on that.

It's interesting because I read the comment as throwing doubt on the legitimacy of the fundraising campaign. Different people are going to interpret this very vague comment in different ways and I think it has a more negative impact on peoples' decisions than a positive one. Understandable that Nezchan would be so curt with Breizh.

Also, it's not great that it's the very first comment you read under the thread cause now we're talking about this instead of what's really important: getting some aid to this woman in need. I've never bought a commission before but now seems a good time to start.

riyu posted:

It's interesting because I read the comment as throwing doubt on the legitimacy of the fundraising campaign.

Well I think that was their point, but they at least seemed to have a actual reason to doubt it, but since they didn't state it I wanted them to elaborate on it, so someone else (who is also knowledgeable) can comment on their observations. There was only one other person who decided to check meds etc. because of that person's comment and they saw nothing wrong, so at least to me, since it didn't open any big discussion about it, it seemed like there was no issue with it after all (or not enough doctors use dynasty forum and/or check news). Sure I still had to take that other person word for it, but they at least acknowledge, some decisions could look off, but are explainable under circumstances, so it sounded reasonable enough.

tl;dr: Since it didn't turn into one big discussion about meds, I assume most people either didn't find issue with it or didn't care enough, so campaign itself is safe.