Today in "ways not to introduce BDSM into a relationship": surprise binding
Couldn't say it better myself
Remember folks: It's not BDSM if it's not consensual and in mutual agreement 
Exactly. It's the 50 shade BS everyone seems to love. 
Not saying I didn't like this, but she was clearly saying no. Talk it out like all other things duh. 
Plus I know besides the binding it was pretty tame but safewords people.