she need to know gaybar exist.
it's sound like she had been hitting on woman with unknown sexuality status.
adult life? pffftttt.
Picking up people in gay bars, let alone any bar, doesn't really give the relationship an impression of a long lasting feel. Bars tend to have that lingering reputation of one night stands and where you met that acquaintance that 'picks up your mood' occasionally. ;p
If you can find someone in a workplace (or similar), someone who you see on a regular basis in situations that you can pickup on their day-to-day personality (not just the first impression) and so on by all means is one of the best ways to find that longlaster.
P.S. I'm not saying bars are bad. Not at all. One of my longest relationships has been with a bar. ;3
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