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Dynasty%20necromancer
joined Mar 6, 2014

pretty much any form of bdsm involves sex. Why are you all acting like prudes? There is nothing wrong with it, it's just unconventional means of getting off.

Faith No More has a dude with some crazy leather shit going on but as far as i'm aware they don't fuck him on stage

Nezchan Moderator
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joined Jun 28, 2012

pretty much any form of bdsm involves sex. Why are you all acting like prudes? There is nothing wrong with it, it's just unconventional means of getting off.

Nobody's acting like prudes. The fact is, your characterization isn't right and a bunch of doujins with light bondage really is poor support at best for arguing otherwise.

Yuu
joined Mar 28, 2015

pretty much any form of bdsm involves sex. Why are you all acting like prudes? There is nothing wrong with it, it's just unconventional means of getting off.

I don't see anyone acting prude here. Just, I think you don't get at all that there can be something intellectual, or emotional, in that kind of practices. Sex, or getting off, is not necessarily the goal there.

It's like saying that there's no such thing as platonic love and everyone just wants the next orgasm.

I'm not into it myself, but I can understand that there can be something really intense emotionally in it.

Omochikaeri_thumb
joined Nov 2, 2013

pretty much any form of bdsm involves sex. Why are you all acting like prudes? There is nothing wrong with it, it's just unconventional means of getting off.

I don't see anyone acting prude here. Just, I think you don't get at all that there can be something intellectual, or emotional, in that kind of practices. Sex, or getting off, is not necessarily the goal there.

It's like saying that there's no such thing as platonic love and everyone just wants the next orgasm.

I'm not into it myself, but I can understand that there can be something really intense emotionally in it.

Obviously it's an emotional as well as physical play. I guess it just depends on the couple, but when I think of it thats where my mind goes.

Also I said you guys sound like prudes because you're acting like sex is a bad thing.

last edited at Aug 14, 2015 11:52PM

Kumirei%20(2)
joined Jun 6, 2014

pretty much any form of bdsm involves sex. Why are you all acting like prudes? There is nothing wrong with it, it's just unconventional means of getting off.

I don't see anyone acting prude here. Just, I think you don't get at all that there can be something intellectual, or emotional, in that kind of practices. Sex, or getting off, is not necessarily the goal there.

It's like saying that there's no such thing as platonic love and everyone just wants the next orgasm.

I'm not into it myself, but I can understand that there can be something really intense emotionally in it.

Obviously it's an emotional as well as physical play. I guess it just depends on the couple, but when I think of it thats where my mind goes.

Also I said you guys sound like prudes because you're acting like sex is a bad thing.

Sex is a good thing; but acting as though S&M is purely a fetish is severely mitigating the worth of people who largely define themselves as sadists or masochists.

Have you ever read Shelly's Frankenstein? Did you know that Frankenstein and the Creature are in a bondage relationship (and it switches who plays what role at a number of times throughout the novel)? If you know that much, you are aware enough that BDSM is not strictly sexual.

last edited at Aug 15, 2015 12:41PM

Yuu
joined Mar 28, 2015

Also I said you guys sound like prudes because you're acting like sex is a bad thing.

Err... it never crossed my mind that it's a bad thing. It's just not the only thing that drives people.

Dynasty
joined Apr 18, 2013

BDSM can be connected to sex or doesn't have to be. You can just tie someone and for example spank them, you can make them be your personal slaves - for example doing house chores and other non-sexual stuff for you. There are even some people who don't like sex, but enjoy submission or dominance. So it's not about being prudes, I actually enjoy erotic yuri mangas a lot if they are good, but no, not every BDSM relationship has to be sexual.

Nezchan Moderator
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joined Jun 28, 2012

BDSM can be connected to sex or doesn't have to be. You can just tie someone and for example spank them, you can make them be your personal slaves - for example doing house chores and other non-sexual stuff for you. There are even some people who don't like sex, but enjoy submission or dominance. So it's not about being prudes, I actually enjoy erotic yuri mangas a lot if they are good, but no, not every BDSM relationship has to be sexual.

Indeed, I was talking to someone on Twitter about this, and they couldn't even wrap their head around it. She couldn't imagine how being an M (which she is) could be at all sexual. Sure a lot of yuri manga/doujins have sex together with BDSM, but that's more of a function of mangaka getting this kind of thing wrong pretty often, or just wanting to use it to de-vanilla the porn they were going to do anyway.

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joined Oct 30, 2015

I like the story... but I think there is a need for the next chapter. ehe...

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joined Jun 22, 2014

I like the story... but I think there is a need for the next chapter. ehe...

Agrreed. Does anyone know something about this?

Hanako
joined Jan 26, 2014

Yes! A new chapter :-D I love this series. The last page said 'end', so is this the last chapter? Or is it still on going?

Blushav2
joined Aug 11, 2015

It's marked as completed now.

Loved The Colonel out of nowhere.

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joined Nov 20, 2014

"End"? END?!? This can't be the end! It's too good to be allowed to end...

Oh well, if it really is the end at least we get a high-note ending rather than a fading out. I could live with this, even if I'd enjoy more yet.

last edited at Dec 25, 2015 8:51AM

Ttkls2
joined Aug 13, 2013

There goes another series to look forward to updating.. All I have now is citrus cause every other serial keeps dying..

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joined May 20, 2013

Today when a savior is born

and a good series dies :(

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joined Jun 12, 2015
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joined Jul 3, 2015

At least it ended pretty conclusively unlike some other series...

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joined Apr 20, 2013

Perfect ending for a perfect couple!!! thanks for this xmas gift

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joined Jan 17, 2014

I had a pretty terrible Christmas but this definitely lightened up my day!
What a great conclusion for one of my favourite series :')

last edited at Dec 25, 2015 10:24AM

Image62
joined Feb 28, 2015

I'm so happy.

Roomfortwo
joined Feb 11, 2014

Kinda sad it's finished, but that ending was perfect. <3

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joined Aug 1, 2011

There was more! Yayification!

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joined Dec 8, 2013

And Imamura Youko sticks the landing! A perfect ten outta ten!! :D

Seolaposescolor2
joined Nov 9, 2014

Perfectly fitting ending!! I'm going to miss these two!

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joined Dec 30, 2014

Nice

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