SomethingOrOther posted:
SomethingOrOther posted:
Looking at it from an objective standpoint, seducers are mostly to always great looking.
You clearly don't understand how charisma and seduction work. If you were so good looking women go to bed with you without issue, you wouldn't need to seduce them in the first place.
Also "looking from an objective standpoint". Lol. And where is your prove majority of seducers are good looking?
Do you even know what seducing means? So you are telling me that seducers are ugly with great charisma? Oh do you have it all wrong.Look at Casanova, the most renowned seducer in the world. In his times, his looks were most sought after. Look at Ted Bundy, a serial killer with lack of emotions, mischievous, and also great looking.
I never said all seducers are ugly. You're the one saying they all have to be certain way. It's nice that you at least can name some examples, though 2 is nowhere near "majority". Also yes. I do. It is the act of tempting someone to do something (usually sex). Nowhere it says you are supposed to tempt only with your good looks. In fact, I bet both examples you stated had also charming personality (or at least knew how to talk to girls) as well as good looks. The point is you can seduce people without looking like top model from fashion magazine, but it definitely make it easier. Also I love how you assume all women are so shallow they will go to bed with anyone as long as they are good looking. Sure some will, but even the best looking man in the world need to have something else going for him if he wants all ladies to flock to him. That is where charisma comes into play.
Name one well known seducer who is ugly, I'm waiting. And don't you dare name Uganda's ugliest man. He may have had 3 wives and has 8 children, but that is because he is famous for something and also has a heart of gold. At least that is what his 3rd wife says. Just because you are the ugliest man, doesn't mean there won't be people who find you attractive. All I am saying is, that people who get it on a lot are good looking. If you look at famous people with great looks, they have had up to 77 known partners.
Man, you are so hypocritical. So he doesn't count because he is famous, but other famous people who happened to be good looking do? Also the part about heart of gold is basically what charisma and seduction is in a nutshell. You get people interested into you by other values than your look. It's sad to hear someone honestly believe women don't care about people being smart, interesting, funny etc. and only want to fuck pretty people regardless of their personality.
Honestly, I wrote much more than you deserved, because you are condescending af in your posts and act as if what you say is some ultimate truth everyone should agree with, while making pretty hasty generalizations on top of that. I don't expect to convince you, since you clearly think you already figured everything out and nobody can prove you wrong, so I'm not going to bother with you more than that.
EDIT/ I did a quick google search:
"Many of Bundy's young female victims regarded him as handsome and charismatic, which were traits that he exploited to win their trust."
He strove to be the ideal escort in the first act— witty, charming, confidential, helpful—before moving into the bedroom in the third act.
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