^ To my understanding, "Yaoi" refers to female-targeted M/M manga, whereas those intended for a male audience are "Bara". (I think; this is probably a sweeping generalization.) There's no such distinction for F/F manga afaik, so you get more interactions/clashes between himejoshi and himedanshi sub(sub)fandoms and their respective expectations, like drama over shipping mortal enemies with another.
Again, greatly abstracted, but I believe the former have a higher tolerance for emotional "complexity" and the latter for sexual "spectacle". Perhaps it's just my own bias, but the toxicity in fanworks is just so much more intricate when targeted at women. Male-targeted works can be just as depraved and offensive (if not worse) but tend to ignore the multidimensional context around the abuse. Or, in regards to smut, to misquote from a 1991 comedy western: "Men just need an [opportunity] to fuck, women need a reason".
To apologize for broad strokes again (hat-trick!), the first author who comes to my mind when it comes to "exaggerated porn which never explores its scandalous setting" is Pandacorya, who is apparently a woman. Maybe my entire point is just me being swamped in the very gender stereotypes I despise so much...
Uh, quick, midriff! Genshin Impact certainly has a lot of it (probably because outside of sheer lingerie, everyone just gets halves of a set) on both guys and girls. Though on the topic of Genshin Yaoi I can't but notice how they've be dialling back the amount of husbandos released, down to 3 out of 18 within the last year. I'd much prefer men being released in lockstep with women (like in HSR) instead of becoming a bishoujo game paying mere lip service to having playable men.